In the segregated South of the early twentieth century, unwritten rules guided every aspect of individual behavior, from how blacks and whites stood, sat, ate, drank, walked, and talked to whether they made eye contact with one another. Jennifer Ritterhouse asks how children learned this racial etiquette, which was sustained by coercion and the threat of violence. More broadly, she asks how individuals developed racial self-consciousness.
White children and African American children were carefully taught the Jim Crow social structure, but differently. White writers who describe the point in their lives when segregation is enforced (for instance when they are scolded for sitting down to eat with the family's maid) write about this only if they find something wrong about it. Therefore only a handful of white southerners write about the Jim Crow system because most of them just accept it. Black children are taught the rules for their own protection and parents are often harsh in reinforcing the prohibitions.
This well-documented and researched book answered my questions about race relations after the Civil War and what it might have been like to be a child of either race growing up in that era. Illustrated with an abundance of true accounts. Includes a few old photographs.