I picked this up (from my public library via Hoopla) to settle some questions I had about the recent Baz Luhrmann _Elvis_ movie, and it certainly delivered. Chock full of interview quotes from those who knew Elvis and the Colonel, including the Colonel’s Dutch family (interviews by Nash herself and copious interviews by other journalists), this attempts to pin down a man whose life was shaped by a devotion to the con, a man who expected people to know they were all playing a game he intended to win, a man accustomed to manipulating and abusing others, a man who wanted to shape perception of himself almost as much as he wanted to make money off the cash cow he felt he had created.
I had read several reviews of the Luhrmann film that talked about the truth and falsehood of the events portrayed. Since Luhrmann’s best films are less about fact or reality and more about emotional truth, I expected that much of the showmanship was in service to a greater point. Despite the insistence of the critics that Luhrmann was overstating history and that the portrayal of Elvis as manipulated and abused by the Colonel, one critic even stating that Elvis could have gotten out at any time, that he was a grown man and not such a great guy himself, this biography suggests Luhrmann had the right tone and portrayal of abuse if not the exact facts (again, facts aren’t Luhrmann’s deal, admittedly problematic in a biopic.) Elvis and many of those around him leaned heavily on the Colonel and trusted him to their detriment, and the relationships the Colonel had were nearly all abusive. He was manipulative. He was mean “in fun.” He mourned his lost past and forced others to recreate it. He kept Elvis under his thumb and this emotional and financial abuse of Elvis seems like it might have contributed to Elvis’s drug abuse and thus his death. The truth is that victims of abuse fight back against that abuse in maladaptive ways, and they don’t have to be saints themselves to be recognized as abused. So A++ for Luhrmann for getting the Colonel’s abusiveness across even if he oversanctified Elvis to do it.
This book is really remarkably researched. You get a bit more Elvis than is strictly necessary, to fill in the parts of the Colonel’s story that get dull - so many business deals, so many cons, such a confusing and contradictory character.
The only overreach is the biographer’s suggestion that there must be some reason beyond the Colonel’s own mind (and possible mental illnesses) that he left Holland and refused to interact much with his family after one brief youthful return. It is indeed mysterious that upon his second departure, he left his trunk of belongings and money and didn’t say goodbye. One might think this was spontaneity, a weird practical joke, or an indicator of mental illness. The author, however, chooses to imply that Parker may have murdered a young married woman he knew, who was killed the night he disappeared from Holland forever. After spending chapters suggesting Parker was perhaps asexual, the only motive she can suggest is jealousy since the woman had married, or perhaps an accidental killing involving money. She also suggests that his OCD tendencies were a symptom of bipolar disorder, and that people with these conditions tend towards violence in adolescence. I’m not sure that’s accurate. But she’s also established that he came from an abusive family with a lot of reasons why Parker would have ended up with some awful behaviors. It’s a weird misstep, and it makes her big reveal less trustworthy. She reveals, based on sketchy records, that the Colonel served in the US military, going AWOL and ending up incarcerated for mental illness and then discharged. But it’s not entirely clear that one can be certain the records she’s found are those of the Colonel since he did not enlist in his birth name or his chosen one - or if he did, those records are gone. The evidence of photographs seems compelling that he served, but the whole edifice is gossamer. It would be more believable had she not pushed the also filmy tale of the murder (which remains unsolved.) Far more prosaic would be that the Colonel, mentally ill perhaps from childhood abuse or something genetic, refused to let Elvis tour overseas because he knew himself to not be a US citizen and wanted to keep his meal ticket within his influence. His refusal to take amnesty and obtain citizenship seems part and parcel with his other narcissistic traits of just refusing to believe the things he didn’t want to believe - he couldn’t admit to himself that he was an illegal immigrant, so he couldn’t apply for citizenship during the amnesty. Later in life after the story got out and he was in legal trouble, he _could_ admit it because it was to his benefit. It’s possible that the biographer has more convincing information that shores up her belief that Colonel Tom Parker murdered someone, and that meant he never wanted to return to Holland or talk to his family, but without whatever that might be, without it it’s more believable to me that he was just a garden variety sociopath, with coldness, manipulativeness, and attention to appearances that this entails. Not to mention that he might be convinced his relatives would use him for money (which it seems obvious they would not have done, but to him it might seem obvious they would, because he would have!)
I knocked off a star for this frustrating “murder!” attempt at a bombshell, a testimony to how unfamiliar people are with the bizarre illogical behavior of people like the Colonel. Oh, and I was not down with the (TW for sexual assault)
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sentence that stated that “Elvis, humiliated and enraged, forced her to have sex in an episode that, according to Priscilla, bordered on rape.” Because there’s no parsing this: forcing someone to have sex is rape, no matter how it is characterized. Priscilla might have not recognized it as such in 1972, but in 2013 Nash should have been able to negotiate the legal ramifications better than to imply that it was not in fact rape. “Bordered on” my foot.
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But really the book is quite interesting. The parts where the Colonel is working for the Humane Society and taking advantage a young man with special needs are not pleasant but they are so illustrative of Parker’s character that it is spellbinding to watch the varied reactions of people who know him later. You can totally see his abusiveness - and no “oh he was always kind to ME” or “he innovated merchandizing!” could make me forget as he went along on his destructive way.