She is pathologically reserved, and acknowledges that she only showed him affection once. Also, I have come to a realization based on this H's behavior: it's obvious he will never attempt to truly put her mind at ease about other women, even if he isn't actually cheating. As far as I'm concerned, that's cheating. Yes, I said it, failure to deny cheating emphatically is cheating. It's cruel and it's a form of gaslighting/destroying the h's feeling of stability. I have henceforth creating the following term: Lasslighting -- when the H lets the h thinks he is cheating to cause her psychological stress and instability. (If you make the h do the time, then you did the crime, bud.)