“We hear “don’t settle for less than the best,” but “don’t expect perfection.” We hear “you have to give a little,” but “don’t change for someone.” We hear “don’t play the dating game,” but “go out with lots of people.” We hear “go and flirt,” but “don’t be too forward.” Basically, if you ask two people the same question about dating, you’ll get at least three different answers. I was challenged to bring this entire book to a single section.”