“The trouble with problem-focused thinking is that it ignores one of the most basic principles necessary for changing your future. Namely, the principle that whatever you focus on most organizes and prioritizes every lesser piece of your life. So if your focus is on the opinions of people—people and their interactions will organize all of your thoughts, feelings and choices. If your focus is on your finances—your finances will order and prioritize every other aspect of your life. In other words, that to which you pay the most attention, dominates and becomes the organizing paradigm of your life. Thus when you focus on your problems, your problems become the organizing dynamic of your soul.”