Proud Of It! discussion

I don't know what to do...for the longest time I've just hated myself so much and finally thought it was getting better. But now I hated myself more than I ever have before...I hate myself with a burning passion :(

I hate myself. Period.

I used to have low self esteem but now my self esteem is really high!

I got over anorexia and now my self esteem is high but every once and a while I'll get bad again

Okay I know this is off topic but how old do I look that's me in my profile picture everyone always say that I look way younger then I am

Your age could range between (13-15)

Okay I just checked your profile. No WAY!! You are 29 years old! That's awesome! I would love to have no wrinkle face and youthful face when I am that age.

Thanks for the answer it was honest! I'm 29 though

I would like a few wrinkles!

I wouldn't care if I didn't have a kid but with the kid everyone thinks she's my little sister!

I meant if I did look youthful not if I didn't have a little kid!

Thanks Jessy!!!!

That's a BIG compliment, Emma. I mean, there are ways you can look more mature but without getting wrinkles. (Different haircut, clothes, etc.) Do NOT try to get wrinkles or do anything to your skin. You will regret it later. I mean imagine how cool it would be to be 50 and look 30! People would literally kill for that. You would be counting your blessings and thanking God (if you believe in God, that is.)

Jessy wrote: "You're welcome :)

Someone told me I looked 12 XD"

I always get told that. But, I don't see it as a compliment because it's probably more because of my height:( But yeah, it's a good thing to look young. You are pretty too, Jessy. You know that :)

Me too :(

I have never been comfortable with myself because I look a lot younger then I really am, I lot of people think im 12 or 13, but I am really 16.

Kaitlyn wrote: "I have never been comfortable with myself because I look a lot younger then I really am, I lot of people think im 12 or 13, but I am really 16."

That happens to my sister, and she is 17 going on 18. It's not only you, and when you get older, you know you'll want to look younger.

Also, since I'm commenting, I really love myself. Wait... that sounded narcisstic... What I mean to say is that I have high self esteem, I like my looks (for the most part...) and I am of average smartness. Not everything should be about looks. If you hate yourself because of how you look, THAT is being narcisstic. Not to shoot anyone down, but who cares how you look. If people talk about me behind my back because I'm short, or stocky, or I wear glasses, or my hair is ugly, I DON'T CARE! I only care about my friends, and if THEY talk about me behind my back, then they don't deserve to be my friends. Really, I don't get the point of worrying about my looks. The only time I try hard to look nice is when I need to be proffesional. That is not to say I don't enjoy looking nice, because I do love dressing up, but I don't care if my dressing up looks bad to people I don't care about.
Wow... that was a long rant...

I think I'm just normal but my BFF luvs to bring me down so when I get back to school I'm gonna stop being her friend

I was talking to this boy about relationships. He was really self conscious and he said he had only been called attractive twice. I said I've never been called it. He has a girlfriend so he said,
Your not ugly, I'm not gonna say your attractive because I'm not sure if I'm allowed. I don't have a crush on you or anything but your not ugly.


Then I said thanks so so much and said maybe I'll have more luck next year finding a bf. he said
I'm sure you will:)

I think he made my day, no not my day, my life:)

Yes. I'm so grateful I have him as a friend.

Yeah:D

meself = I EPICLY AWESOMELY <3 meself

I used to hate how I looked with a burning passion. But a year went by and I started to like how I look. With the help of friends that told me to stop thinking that way and I look beautiful and it is what is in the inside that counts.