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Adultery & lack of passion between married couples, how to deal with it?

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Mahdi Dridi I went downtown on the 14th of June and visited the well-known bookshop “Kiteb”…
The first book to fall in my visual radar was Paulo Coelho's Adultery (French copy)…
As I read the back cover of the book I felt my blood boil, and I couldn’t really think straight for a minute or two.
It’s the story of about mid-thirty’s married woman & mother of two behaved children… Her marriage is stable, her husband is caring, her children are sweet as Jewels: WHAT CAN ANYBODY WANT MORE FROM LIFE???
She suffered secretly from boredom, apathy & inside-loneliness. She had to fake her feelings in every turn, in order to preserve her marriage, and that’s, I confess, respectfully respected. (But nothing to be astonished about from a married person. Isn’t that what marriage is all about?).
Everything was cool until she met her EX-F**KING-Boy-Friend, that stirred in her some old feelings. “Passion” I read.
Why not speak up one’s feelings to one’s partner??? Why not share one’s thought with one’s mate? WHY NOT SEEK SOME CHANGE IN ONE’S MARITAL LIFE IN ORDER TO PRESERVE IT, GIVE IT A FRESH START?????
THAT’S WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT, RIGHT? SHARING! & THAT’S TRUE LOVE!
The nature of human heart is to love more than one person, that’s undeniable, & I can humbly SUCCUMB to that idea, since I’ve witnessed people experiencing such things... I used to consider it a heart disease, a mental instability, Untrue love…
Maybe we can’t deny the existence of feelings but we can choose to what things or/and to what people we give in, who we let into our miserably humble lives.
I still didn’t read the book, so maybe I can’t review every corner it speaks about, but the title itself is debate!
ADULTERY is the problem, not the solution!
DOESN’T ANY F**KING BODY KNOW HOW TO F**KING LOVE?

I still don’t know whether the “adultery” happened on the inside of her heart, her feelings, Or it Surpassed it into giving her body to someone outside the marital circle.

And By the way, whether She gave in to ONLY FEELINGS OR GAVE HER EX-BF ACCESS TO WHAT’S UNDER HER SKIRTS DOESN’T REALLY MATTER!!! IT’S ABOUT THE SAME THING!
DOESN’T ANY F**KING BODY KNOW HWO TO FUCKING LOVE???
A DOUBLE CROSS IS A DOUBLE CROSS! A BACKSTAB IS A FU**ING BACK STAB!
I hope I can get my hands on some digital copy of it so I can speak about it more… it’s immensely disturbing me, I confess, But it doesn’t mean I will give up on reading it or hate one of my favorite authors for it. I will face it, look it right into its eyes and say: “BRING IT ON, LOVER”…


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