badass babes discussion

hey babes! here's your spot to put out all your feminist rage, I wanna hear it <3 try to keep cussing to a minimum but I get it its okay. let it out, we can all get into heated agreements about it together, come on! lay on the opinions and the anger and the beliefs, just put it all out, i'm wanna get angry with you!!! <3

WHY DO I HAVE TO PAY A CRAP TON OF MONEY FOR MY PERIOD WHICH I CANT CONTROL

Meenal (#1 willow stan) wrote: "WHY DO I HAVE TO PAY A CRAP TON OF MONEY FOR MY PERIOD WHICH I CANT CONTROL"

YESSS LIKE WHAT THE HECK, IT'S NOT LIKE WE'RE LIKE "okay! I think I wanna get my period this month!" LIKE NO WE DONT WANT IT OKAY??? I honestly think its so effing stupid that we have to buy products, like what other option do we have? bleed through our pants? huh??? NOOO??? I DONT WANNA PAY MONEY SO THAT I DONT BLEED ON EVERYTHING, stuff already costs enough do they seriously have to make PERIOD PRODUCTS COST MONEY TOO?? I'm so glad you brought this up it rly pisses me off >:(

OMG YES and what’s even worse when guys are like “c’mon it’s not that bad” LIKE HOW ABT I KICK YOU IN THE STOMACH FOR A WEEK STRAIGHT EACH MONTH AND SEE HOW YOU FEEL?? like go on somewhere

GIRL YES they're like "oh it's whatever" but they wouldn't last a day

😭😭😭 that's probably accurate and I hate it for that

RIGHT i see those guys do the like period simulators and they can’t get past like the 3rd level

and then they're like "why do they put period products in bathrooms?? like buy your own stuff??"
LIKE BRO ARE YOU BRINGING YOUR OWN TOILET PAPER???

haha not in most places
Idk how they know it was supposed to be a female secret

Can I rant about how we dont have achat yet

Tell my why I walk into school today and my boyfriend is sitting in the office and that's how my mom meets him for the first time. and YES he was in trouble and talking to the principal.

What did he do-

Meenal (#1 willow stan) wrote: "and then they're like "why do they put period products in bathrooms?? like buy your own stuff??"
LIKE BRO ARE YOU BRINGING YOUR OWN TOILET PAPER???"

FOR REAL LIKE STFU

Jenna wrote: "Tell my why I walk into school today and my boyfriend is sitting in the office and that's how my mom meets him for the first time. and YES he was in trouble and talking to the principal."

my boyfriend met my dad before we were even dating, at one of his soccer games he went to, my boyfriend literally walked up to him and shook his hand and I was terrified 😬

omgosh i already love this lol

✯ELLIE✯ wrote: "can you make a normal chat?"

sure yeah! hold on!

Lmao we vibe

hahaha I love this

At my school the dress code....Don't even get me started on the dress code!!!!! LIKE I ONCE SAW A GUYS WEARING SHORTS THAT SHOWED EVERYTHING AND HE DIDN'T EVEN GET IN TROUBLE BUT A GIRL WEARING A DRESS DID!

✯ELLIE✯ wrote: "caitlyn ✧˖°. wrote: "RIGHT i see those guys do the like period simulators and they can’t get past like the 3rd level"

my brother (as a joke mind you) said this last week "oh girls have it so easy,..."

HAHAHHA this made me laugh outloud thats so funny

Ya'll my least favorite thing is when men goes up to you at the gym and looks at your weights and then looks at your body. and then procedes and tell you I better add more weights to get all the fat off me. Like dude what the ever loving hell does that mean!!

This happens to me at least 2 times. And here the thing sorry I can't have the freaking perfect body. Sorry that I want to eat, be happy, and be healthy. Sorry that I don't add up to be your dream girl or whatever you are thinking.

Londonᥫ᭡ wrote: "Ya'll my least favorite thing is when men goes up to you at the gym and looks at your weights and then looks at your body. and then procedes and tell you I better add more weights to get all the fa..."

😭 what the hell??

IKR!!!! And like dude when did I even ask and who the hell are you even. ID even know the guy.

Londonᥫ᭡ wrote: "IKR!!!! And like dude when did I even ask and who the hell are you even. ID even know the guy."

what the actual heck like who does that 💀

My friend hates that. When we were in the same school. She was always pick last.

enne.deali wrote: "Londonᥫ᭡ wrote: "IKR!!!! And like dude when did I even ask and who the hell are you even. ID even know the guy."

what the actual heck like who does that 💀"

And I am like whenever that happens I unplug my earpods and look at him and ask him, "What did you say, I couldn't hear the shit that just came out of your mouth." Then precede doing my work out.

And then they normally leave or get real angry and put their anger on some poor work out machine.

Okay so why do glue on nails never stay for me. Like I gotta wear them for prom and its just grr

✯ELLIE✯ wrote: "i bite my nails, and my mom let me get the dip thing and it worked, but she hasnt booked another appointment so i can redo them and i bit my nails to stubs"

I also bite my nails way too much 😭

I pick mine and rip my nails its horrible

Omgg my biggest thing is that men are praised for EVERYTHING. Like on tiktok when men do the absolute bare minimum they get so much praise it’s actually insane. But woman does the bare minimum and it’s not good enough. And also Tell me why I keep seeing videos of men and women on weight loss journeys and under every single male one it’s like “I’m so proud of you bro keep ur head up” and under the womens it’s always “how does one even get like that” and just like stuff commenting ab how her body isn’t good enough. Like the double standard is crazy. I’m not saying men shouldn’t get praise for trying to get healthy but like let’s keep that same mentality for women ughh!

Syd wrote: "Omgg my biggest thing is that men are praised for EVERYTHING. Like on tiktok when men do the absolute bare minimum they get so much praise it’s actually insane. But woman does the bare minimum and ..."

OMG IKR!! I fucking hate it!!!! Like we women work twice as hard to get the attention but if we want attention we are called pick me girls or attention seekers. Or when we got dump by a bf and got together with someone else like in a week we are called sluts. Or just this we woman freaking have a swear word!!!!

since this is the rant category....ummm....so one of my friends is talking to my ex and they sat together at lunch the whole week which is chill because my ex and his friends also sit with my friend group anyways what's like wrong about it is that me and him (my ex have like this on and off again relationship it's been going on since 2 years anyways we were talking again and i know like past reasons we have broken up is because he's taken a liking to other girls even someone a grade younger who was also on the younger side of her grade and we worked through it but one of my best friends like BFFR....she asked me if she could sit with him at lunch i said it's fine cause we were talking you know....and i feel like i have a right to be jealous and what not cause we were literally talking when he brings up her and stuff and when you've been with someone like that you can tell when they like someone so im like you can go ahead and fuck her like i dont care i obvi do but he doesn't have to know and everyone is like looking at me while eating lunch and my friends are like mouthing are you okay like ofc i am...but i know it's not long before he's gonna come back that sounds hella toxic but it's true ...and she's the type of person like if some guy says anything to her inappropriate she drops them...and my ex isn't like the most innocent guy at school...sooo any tips??

Just me or are women (especially teen girls) hated on no matter what they do or like? Like, for example: one girl only plays games like animal crossing or Mario kart and suddenly she's basic? But then on the contrary, if she mainly plays fighting games or shooters she's a pick me??? Or how about fashion: dress in flares and a zip up hoodie and you're just like everybody else; wear something unique and exciting and you're a weirdo!! Think about short versus long hair, movie opinions, careers, exercise habits, makeup... I could literally go on for eternity with examples. Girls aren't allowed to like the things they want to like, and if they like what society wants them to like suddenly they're basic. I'm actually pissed out of my mind

JUST LET PEOPLE BE PEOPLE

✯ELLIE✯ wrote: "or when you get picked last when choosing teams in PE"

I RELATE TO THIS SM

like SERIOUSLY and then they show attitude when they get the 'lazy girl'

like ASSHOLE, who are you to do that?? ITS JUST FUCKING SOCCER

CBear wrote: "Just me or are women (especially teen girls) hated on no matter what they do or like? Like, for example: one girl only plays games like animal crossing or Mario kart and suddenly she's basic? But t..."

This is so true.

Okay so I don't get the trend of "Being LGBTQ+ for a day." Like it really hurts since I am trans-masc and omnisexual (Omnisexual is you have a preference but will date anyone.) It hurts because they are mocking it and how the world is today I don't feel safe walking the streets at all. I come from a transphobic and homophobic family that's only directed towards me.

Ok so I was at a meeting thing for school and there was food out right. There was this girl who had a plate with like only 4 cookies on it and someone called her fat but the dude who called her fat had 5 pieces of pizza... LIKE WHAT THE HELL!!!

CBear wrote: "Just me or are women (especially teen girls) hated on no matter what they do or like? Like, for example: one girl only plays games like animal crossing or Mario kart and suddenly she's basic? But t..."

I know right. And our society are like oh we treat everybody equally. Well that is just fucking bullshit if you ask me. Cause like I even did this. If say woman burp or whatever people will say it's unlady like. First of all Why isn't there a unmale like?!?! Why only women. And if boys do it they don't get scolded or whatever yk. And that not all I know this may seem gross but if you fart everybody thinks your gross and weird and it isn't laydylike. But if boys do it, it's them being boys! Like what that actual Hek!!!!!!

faith (SKZ's version) wrote: "since this is the rant category....ummm....so one of my friends is talking to my ex and they sat together at lunch the whole week which is chill because my ex and his friends also sit with my frien..."

he sounds toxic asf tell ur friend to stay away and you should stay away to just tbh <3

CBear wrote: "Just me or are women (especially teen girls) hated on no matter what they do or like? Like, for example: one girl only plays games like animal crossing or Mario kart and suddenly she's basic? But t..."

NO MATTER WHAT WE DO IT'S NOT RIGHT AND IT CAN NEVER BE RIGHT IT'S ALWAYS TOO MUCH OR NEVER ENOUGH THERE'S NO PERFECT IN BETWEEN AND ITS SO FRICKED UP

Violet☾ If I cannot be better then them ☽ wrote: "Ok so I was at a meeting thing for school and there was food out right. There was this girl who had a plate with like only 4 cookies on it and someone called her fat but the dude who called her fat..."

bro yes guys body shame girls all the time when they eat so much shit like they can actually stfu

But wait I sorta disagree with that. yes boys body shame us, yes we need to be pretty to have a bf or whatever. But what bout them they need to be cute or handsome to not be picked on, or if they are scrawney nobody wants to be with them or whatever. yk i think that is both sided in my opinion.

Yeah I do agree with that but everyone expects the females to not eat so much or be cautious about how much they eat. No one really expects boys to stop eating (At least at my school) and I think that is just bs

Violet☾ If I cannot be better then them ☽ wrote: "Yeah I do agree with that but everyone expects the females to not eat so much or be cautious about how much they eat. No one really expects boys to stop eating (At least at my school) and I think t..."

yes that's what I'm saying like the guys at my school eat so much and no one cares because it 'doesn't matter' but then when a girl eats a normal healthy amt of food it definitely 'matters' like it shouldn't matter regardless its none of your business yk?

wow... sorry at my old school nobody cared what boys and girls ate. We just minded out own business. But now being homeschooled and eating in and eating around other people I now see like how people judge you while you eat.

Londonᥫ᭡ wrote: "wow... sorry at my old school nobody cared what boys and girls ate. We just minded out own business. But now being homeschooled and eating in and eating around other people I now see like how peopl..."

I feel like people at my school don't talk about it but its just the silent judgment, not with me and my friends but I see it all around me, and it just pisses me off idk