Venting group discussion

Vent out family stuff

Why did my father decide to ask me if he should marry his now ex. wife like don't leave that up to your kids....and the fact that that same lady gave me 4 years of trauma and her kid hit me with things, even to the point I bled like hell I could barely live in that home without being hurt emotionally or mentally, sometimes even physically.

What's the point and now his gf has moved in not even after a year of them dating and now it feels like there is a whole nother family living with us....and they label food with their names and crap like it's food leave it alone sooo that's fun and now my cat is terrified of coming upstairs from the basement because one of their cats decided to fight her everytime he sees her at all so she hides all day in the basement or under a chair in my living room-

I'm the craziest wierdo wrote: "So hi, um my mother is a freaking homophobic ass and she pisses me off so much😞 like she makes these little homophobic remarks a that piss me off so much"

Wow, that's really upsetting to hear. I'm sorry that's happening to you. Just know that things eventually get better, ok?
Trust me, I know I was called so really shitty things, but it will go away, I promise, and it may suck at first, but you'll soon realize you are who you are, and being you is great and what others say will no longer matter.

I'm the craziest wierdo wrote: "Lanna wrote: "I'm the craziest weirdo wrote: "So hi, um my mother is a freaking homophobic ass and she pisses me off so much😞 like she makes these little homophobic remarks a that piss me off so mu..."

I got you! you can reach me any time!

Owl is a loaf of bread wrote: "Why did my father decide to ask me if he should marry his now ex. wife like don't leave that up to your kids....and the fact that that same lady gave me 4 years of trauma and her kid hit me with th..."

I think being with someone who allows their kid to suffer from these things is crazy! I can definitely see where you are coming from, and this all looks upsetting and confusing, but a little piece of advice is to be kind and good at all times, no matter what because karma is very real, so just be patient and allow the universe to take care of you, okay?

I dealt with bs like this, and let me tell you, it was a bitch, but now I'm doing really good, and the bitch is suffering and miserable.
I hope this helps!

Um, so my parents fight a lot in private and they literally argue over any little thing. They try to do it in private but yk thin walls, so naturally I hear anything they say. My dad has said that he wishes he never met my mom, in private and in front of me. Theres has been times where my dad has wanted to actually hit my mom, but he backed down because my mom is the type of person who would fight back. Umm my parents are really bad at showing love to me or acting like they care, I feel like I have no one who is there for me because anytime I open up to anyone people rather shut me out or completely ignore my existence. My grandfather passed away on the 17th of last month and he was the only person who hasn't done anything to hurt me and it seemed like he genuinely cared about me and it destroyed me that he dies. OH! Also the reason he dies was because of my Aunt(great family I have right?) So, yeah that is stuff that happened this year. Also, my family has no idea that I am depressed not that they care anyway. So, yea, this might seem like nothing to you guys but I just needed to take a little bit off my load I could write a while ass book about my life but this will have to suffice

~Sorry for the story, I don't expect you to actually read this if you don't want to~

Wow, I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. Breaks my heart to read this.

Thanks :)

australia

Lanna wrote: "Owl is a loaf of bread wrote: "Why did my father decide to ask me if he should marry his now ex. wife like don't leave that up to your kids....and the fact that that same lady gave me 4 years of tr..."

She should be in jail but yet she isn't, and tbh I'm done with her and everything