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“Everything negative — pressure, challenges — is all an opportunity for me to rise.” ~ Kobe Bryant”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“It takes longer for a woman to screen a man’s personality than it does for a man to screen her appearance. Remember, men get turned on like a light switch, women get turned on like a volume knob. Women must first feel comfortable, secure, and safe with a man before sex is even a thought in her mind. But they must also feel arousal, attraction, and excitement.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Your energy and positivity radiate warmth and fun, lighting others up and unconsciously drawing them closer to you while giving them permission to fully enjoy themselves.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“The funny thing they don’t tell you about commitment, however, is how extremely horrifying it really is.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Teasing is a powerful way to spark a woman’s emotions and put her in a position of validating herself to you.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Whatever it is that you think you shouldn’t say is likely the very thing you must say to create tension, be polarizing, and keep her engaged.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Your purpose in life is to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“As such, there are two roles women put men in: the “lover” who is fun, exciting, and typically short-term material, versus the “provider” who is more reliable, trustworthy, and long-term relationship material.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“They want a man who is unapologetic about who he is and what he wants in the world, a man who isn’t afraid to express his desires.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“You must be unapologetic and able to own your desire. Be okay with the fact you want things, especially women.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“It’s not you vs. the girl. It’s you two creating an interaction together and dancing with the masculine and feminine. It’s a fun game. You’ve just got to know how to play!”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“She needs to know she is with a Grounded Man because she wants to trust you and feel safe with you at all times.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Also, these tests don’t only happen when you first meet a girl. They occur throughout the entire relationship in various forms.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“When you encounter an attractive woman, you need to stay grounded and remind yourself, “Her physical beauty is not enough… what else does she have going for her?” Without this attitude, you will never date the most attractive women who are also healthy, happy, and valuable long-term assets in your life. You need to ask yourself the right questions, namely, “Do I approve of her?” instead of, “Does she approve of me?”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“I’ve known what pain is. I’ve had my arm nearly ripped off and have been choked unconscious training Brazilian Jiu Jitsu many times. I’ve broken ankles playing sports and hyperextended my neck in whiplash accidents. Of all the wounds I’ve ever suffered, nothing hurt as much as that short conversation.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“What women really mean when they say they want a “nice guy” is they still want a strong, masculine man with backbone yet who treats her and others with respect and kindness.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“When you realize this, you can shift from gawking at and putting women on a pedestal to appreciating them for their beauty and feminine energy and entering the interaction with curiosity instead of neediness. You no longer feel like you are trying to win or take something from a woman.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“If you have put in the work to develop yourself as a man, then you deserve to have the full package—a physically attractive woman who has all or the majority of the internal qualities that you desire for a long-term partner—and never settle.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“The more social you can be in your day-to-day life and the more you can create a default state of fun, higher-energy, and sociability, the easier it will be to have effortless interactions with women.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“The lack or presence of attraction is not an indicator that there is something wrong or right with you, merely that there is congruence between yourself and another person.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Simply put, a man who embodies this type of confidence is attractive to women. They sense his innate capabilities—so long as his confidence is paired with character and integrity—and feel that they can trust him on a deeper level. Your confidence illustrates your capability for managing the chaos of life and overcoming the unexpected challenges humans are so often faced.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“It must be a win-win scenario where you are both loyal, committed, and able to operate independently of one another, otherwise your relationship will devolve into a toxic, codependent mess that will make every aspect of your life a living hell.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“People inside of your network might know the woman that you want to meet, so ask. By getting “referred” to an attractive woman, you begin the interaction with more credibility and typically get extra time and attention from her. There’s no “cold approach,”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“However, it’s important that you deliver this test with a playful smile in a good-natured tone. If you sound too serious or like you’re putting her down when you say it, she’ll assume that you’re being a jerk and refuse to try and pass your assessment.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“From this frame you are free to enter into every interaction with only one thought: “What can I give to those around me?”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Is your life so monotonous and boring that the only memorable moments are the occasional holiday and birthday? That isn’t living, it’s surviving and getting through life one day at a time.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Make it a priority to introduce yourself to new people and share more positive emotions with others wherever you are.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Make it clear that you’re being flirtatious and have fun.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“If you are too easy and overly available, then you are depriving women of the fun, excitement, and emotional stimulation of earning and returning the love, attention, and affection of a Grounded Man.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

“Women want a man of honest action who can make bold moves in the face of fear and go after what he wants fervently.”
― Andrew Ferebee, The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams