Jeff Ayan > Quotes

“A false Twin Flame will not be interested in bringing your painful inner misalignments to the surface. They will be more interested in enjoying your presence now as you are, and not interested in investing in you and helping you become aligned with your Divine Self by bringing your core “stuff” to the surface for healing.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“To attain the “permanent” aspect of your Harmonious Twin Flame Union, you must commit to healing your upsets as they arise; and know that it does get easier and easier, and it does feel better working on yourself spiritually with your Twin Flame by your side in the physical. In fact it’s even more rewarding to accomplish your spiritual work while in Harmonious Union together, because you share your process, feelings, love, and joy as they arise. Is there an end to experiencing upsets in your Twin Flame Union? Absolutely! As you progress further and further into your Harmonious Twin Flame Union, you will eventually arrive together to a state we call “Perfect Union,” also known as, ascension. We speak more of this important ultimate end goal in another chapter.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“Twin Flames are unique because they are always bound to each other. The thoughts, actions, and decisions of a Twin Flame intimately and completely impact the other. They are hardly separate, yet they are each unique and complete unto themselves. One cannot exist without the other because they are so perfectly balanced into each other. The perfection and complexity with which this occurs is impossible to explain, or describe, in much the same way that the beauty and vastness of the Universe is impossible to describe. You can feel your Twin Flame when you anchor your consciousness into your Heart center, and you feel them there in a way that completes you. “Completes” does not mean “makes you happy.” “Completes” means “someone who makes you more than you already are in expression, more than you already are in desire, and more than you already are in your Life Force.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“There is no need for another lover ever when you have finally met your Twin Flame. This person will fill all the desires you have for an intimate partner, even if your list of desires is extensive. The energy of your desires and “needs” are highly and fully concentrated in your Twin Flame Union. This person may even do all the same challenging things as many of your previous lovers, because they are helping you to release old patterns and traumas existing within your Mind thus preventing you from your Harmonious Twin Flame Union. They do this out of love and compassion for you, and for your experience and desire for wholeness. They do not do this because they are cruel, abusive, hateful, or desire to destroy the Union. They do this to heal you and to heal themselves.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“Remember, Twin Flame Union is a Divine Love, so the one common and ongoing theme you will experience with and from your Twin Flame experience is this: “Do you love me unconditionally? Even if I choose something in my experience that triggers you? Will you love me no matter what? Will you always choose to love me, or do you just want something from me?”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“Twin Flames are manifested from the very same soul essence, or more accurately, the same soul blueprint. A soul blueprint is the exact same concept as physical DNA. Meaning, our souls are created with individual specific codes, qualities, and traits that make us uniquely us. As above, so below, is a universal law and principle. Just as we have physical DNA that make up our physical genetics and disposition, so too, do we have soul “DNA” that make us who we are spiritually and non-physically.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“The Twin Flame Mirroring Effect exists solely as a reflection of your personal relationship with God, who is your Divine Creator in heaven. That’s one of the main functions of your Twin Flame Union: to reflect to you your relationship, choices and consciousness regarding your Divine Creator. This is truly the one piece that many struggle with on their Twin Flame journey.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“Life on Earth is meant to awake your soul, to shake up the contents of your Mind, and pour forth an entirely new way of Being, which you can take with you elsewhere on your eternal Universal travels. You are meant to be here for a time, and get things aligned, and then move on and explore other parts of this Infinite Vastness. Here on Earth, you are being warned that having and calling in your Twin Flame before you’re ready to do the spiritual work of Harmonious Twin Flame Union is generally not advised. Jeff will tell you later in this book how challenging it is to have your Twin Flame in your life experience even while working the process. It is life-altering in ways that cannot be described. You will, without a doubt, change in ways you could not fathom before, and in time periods you would never expect. Your growth is automatically set to maximum when you invite your Twin Flame into your life experience, and attain Harmonious Twin Flame Union.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“They are also intrinsically motivated to do so, because they are so intimately interwoven with you, and they too, desire to be the best version of themselves. This is basically what we call the Twin Flame Mirroring Effect.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“People want to point the finger at their Twin Flame and blame them for the reason they’re upset and why they’re not together, but by spiritual law, your Twin Flame is reflecting your upsets with God and with yourself. Resolve these upsets, and you resolve your separation from your Twin Flame. We go into great detail how to do this later on in the book.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover

“If you’re not equipped with some very powerful tools to help you move through the upset phase of your Union, then you’re going to have a tough time.”
― Jeff Ayan, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover