Ray Grigg > Quotes

“The function of the zazen and koan is to undo the system that contains them.”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“The first is that all effort to negate self only succeeds in affirming it. The second is that self is not a thing but a reference position.”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“The ordinary is immune to understanding because it cannot be placed outside human experience for examination.”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“61. Man’s Death in Woman Woman is the generous and welcoming valley of soft mountains where man willingly comes from the hardness of the world to be overcome. She is warm promise and roundness of full earth and moon to which even the wisdom of heaven is left speechless. She is the presence of primal beginning from which man arises. Birth and life struggle him away but desire and death enchant him back. A man’s death in woman is his birth again. She is confirmation of the small and great rhythms of blood and generations to which he keeps returning for comfort and release.”
― Ray Grigg, The Tao of Relationships: A Balancing of Man and Woman

“So the real answer to any fundamental question is experience itself.”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“The situation demands effort but thwarts trying.”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“47. Attached By Each Other Float into the air of idea and disappear into the thin wind of thought. Where then is body that comes from soil and flesh that belongs with flesh? Touch earth. Smell its fragrance. Taste its flavours. Man and woman are attached by each other to earth.”
― Ray Grigg, The Tao of Relationships: A Balancing of Man and Woman

“The unspoken conspiracy of all religions—and the Buddhism of Zen Buddhism is not an exception—is their seemingly irresistable inclination to make metaphysical what is not so, and then to organize into complexity what is inherently simple.”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“34. Beneath Each Knowing There is mystery because there is not-knowing. Yet beneath each knowing is the next not-knowing. So each knowing deepens the mystery. Yet even in knowing there is the mystery of knowing.”
― Ray Grigg, The Tao of Relationships: A Balancing of Man and Woman

“One uttered word of explanation is wrong,”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“25. Practice Humility Practice humility and do not try to get ahead of each other. A winner requires a loser. Retribution provokes reprisal. What a foolish circle to be trapped within. We are born in humility and we die in humility. From beginning to end, it is a proven path.”
― Ray Grigg, The Tao of Relationships: A Balancing of Man and Woman

“But for those who need a system, Chuang Tzu offers the reminder that the fish trap is only needed to catch the fish; once the fish is caught the fish trap is no longer needed so much the better if the fish can be caught without the trap.”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen

“Now, I am going to tell you something. I don't know what heading it comes under, and whether or not it is relevant here, but it must be relevant at some point. It is not anything new, but I would like to say it. There is a beginning. There is no beginning of that beginning. There is no beginning of that no beginning of beginning. There is something. There is nothing. There is something before the beginning of something and nothing, and something before that. Suddenly there is something and nothing. But between something and nothing, I still don't really know which is something and which is nothing. Now, I've just said something, but I don't really know whether I've said anything or not.3”
― Ray Grigg, Tao of Zen