Andrés Barba > Quotes

“El amor no tenía nada que ver con el lenguaje. El amor era más bien un acontecimiento que ocurría precisamente contra el lenguaje.”
― Andrés Barba , Versiones de Teresa

“So how does love start from scratch? How does one live in a world with no points of reference?”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Everything fights death, I thought, from maggots to sequoias, from the river Eré to a termite. I will not die, I will not die, I will not die.”
― Andrés Barba, República luminosa

“But trees have no interest in good and evil, insects and plant roots have no interest in the reasons of man, much less his longing, and there is something comforting about that.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Puede que los muertos nos traicionen al abandonarnos, pero nosotros también los traicionamos para vivir.”
― Andrés Barba, República luminosa

“And we didn’t know what to do with our love, either; it was so heavy.”
― Andrés Barba, Such Small Hands

“porque todo miedo es en el fondo una invocación al acontecimiento que se teme, porque nadie puede temer sin desear de alguna forma que se produzca lo que le atemoriza, y viendo aquel cuerpo que dormía con los ojos ligeramente entreabiertos reconocía que el miedo formaba parte del amor, que el miedo era el amor.”
― Andrés Barba, Versiones de Teresa

“To name is to bestow a fate, to listen is to comply”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“A gyerekek számára a világ olyan múzeum, ahol a felnőtt őrök talán az idő nagyobbik részében kedvesek, de attól még ők hozzák a szabályokat: minden szilárd, minden öröktől fogva, már jóval előttük is létezett. A szeretetért cserébe fenn kell tartaniuk ártatlanságuk mítoszát. Nem elég, hogy ártatlanok, de annak is kell látszaniuk.”
― Andrés Barba, República luminosa

“Perhaps it's impossible to understand and forgive others without having first forgiven and understood oneself.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Loss of trust is similar to heartbreak. Both lay bare some internal wound, both make us feel older than we are.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“We didn’t know sadness until we had a point of comparison.”
― Andrés Barba, Such Small Hands

“Love and fear have one thing in common: they are both states in which we allow ourselves to be fooled and guided.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“It may be true that the dead betray us when they abandon us, but we too betray them in order to live.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Believing in magic is the same as love: those convinced of its existence, and of falling in love, end up doing so sincerely, and those who doubt their feelings thwart the very possibility of having them, a paradox that leaves us forlorn, wondering what we might have become if only we'd allowed ourselves to believe.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“The written word stays with us; like photography, it too possesses the somber, granular persistence of evidence”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Az ember néha azt hiszi, hogy ha alá akar szállni az emberi lélek szakadékába, előtte hatalmas tengeralattjáróra kell szállnia; végül pedig azon kapja magát, hogy búvárruhában próbál lemerülni egy közönséges fürdőkádban.”
― Andrés Barba, República luminosa

“Suddenly there were hands that we didn’t recognize, and we became strangers.”
― Andrés Barba, Such Small Hands

“Blood courses through everything, it fills everything. Beneath the green jungle, beneath the brown river, beneath the red earth there is always blood, a blood that flows and completes things.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“And then he put forth a theory as twisted as his bow tie: everyone has their own witness. Someone that we secretly want to convince, someone all of our actions are directed toward, someone we can’t stop secretly talking to. This witness, he added, is not the most obvious, is almost never your spouse or father or sister or lover, is often someone trivial, secondary to the normal course of life.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“I’ve come to the conclusion that the true purpose of marriage is none other than talking, and this is not only precisely what distinguishes it from other types of personal relationships but also what is most missed: the trivial conversations about everything from the neighbor’s bad mood to how ugly a friend’s daughter is. Pointless and none too insightful observations are the essence of intimacy, what we mourn after the death of our wives, our fathers, our friends. A few months after Maia’s death I was”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“So how does love start from scratch? How does one love in a world with no points of reference?”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“I suppose a Hollywood hack pitching this novel would say: Lord of the Flies meets Heart of Darkness. That would give only the crudest suggestion of this miraculous book, which is at once so strong and delicate that music alone comes to mind as a correlative—in Marianne Moore’s line, “Like Gieseking playing Scarlatti,” or more like Michelangeli playing Debussy—powerful chords hammered out amidst the most feathery ornaments.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Even her face was like ours, though wary and full, like when you got scared. “Her eyes are broken, that’s why she can’t close them. You have to lick her eyeballs so she can see or else she can’t see.” Marina held out her doll; that was the first thing she’d said to us. We stuck our tongues out until the tips touched the cold glass of her eyes. And it was true: the doll could see then.”
― Andrés Barba, Such Small Hands

“Hij zei dat om het niet te hoeven geloven, alleen in de hoop dat de werkelijkheid hem zou tegenspreken.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Comfort is something that sticks to one’s mind like a damp shirt, and only after making an unexpected move does it become clear that one is stuck.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“As people, we are fascinated by anything that excludes us... we start by projecting our own qualities onto anything we can't make sense of and end up believing that tigers fall in love, God is a jealous avenger and trees are nostalgic.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Soms lijkt het alsof je aan boord van een machtige onderzeeër moet gaan om de diepten van de menselijke ziel te bereiken, maar vervolgens vind je jezelf terug in een badkuip terwijl je in een duikpak kopje-onder probeert te gaan.”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“seemed we had so many things to talk about, and at the same time nothing to say. Perhaps one of the greatest surprises about marriage is precisely that: the inevitable formality, even when you know the other’s body and habits better than your own. Light filtered in through”
― Andrés Barba, A Luminous Republic

“Il n'est pas toujours facile de déterminer si ce qui nous menace a sur nous plus d'influence que ce qui nous séduit. La nature des deux affects parfois n'est pas contradictoire, mais presque impossible à distinguer.”
― Andrés Barba, Repubblica luminosa