Vinay Bansal > Quotes

“in order to show interest and keep the conversation going, we should ask about the other person - their day, their experiences, their life journey and their future plans. It strengthens the bond.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“When the Saint used to meditate, a mouse used to sit in his lap. The tiny animal wouldn’t disturb him but would accompany him.  Slowly over the period of months, the Saint grew fond of that mouse. It became his companion. One day a cat came when the Saint was meditating. The cat threatened to kill and eat that mouse. Hearing that, the Saint was annoyed, and he used his magical powers to turn the mouse into a bigger cat.  Everything went fine for a while. That bigger cat played around the Saint, and no animal tried to cross its path. But”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“The initial thing is to keep our curiosity alive about the person we are conversing with. By asking them about their life stories, experiences, likes and dislikes, we make them feel special, which is something everyone enjoys. This, in turn, helps create a great bonding. If someone doesn’t show any interest in you, you won’t feel like speaking to them after the initial introductions.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“When the Saint used to meditate, a mouse used to sit in his lap. The tiny animal wouldn’t disturb him but would accompany him.  Slowly over the period of months, the Saint grew fond of that mouse. It became his companion. One day a cat came when the Saint was meditating. The cat threatened to kill and eat that mouse. Hearing that, the Saint was annoyed, and he used his magical powers to turn the mouse into a bigger cat.  Everything went fine for a while. That bigger cat played around the Saint, and no animal tried to cross its path. But one day, a wild dog came and challenged this cat. The Saint again used his magical powers to convert the Cat into a Dog. Things went well for a while until the Saint heard the roar of a Lion nearby one day. Without wasting a second, the Saint turned his dog to a lion by magic. But this time, as soon as the Dog turned, it attacked the Saint. This Lion was the Ego.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“If we can maintain a permanent and stable relationship with ourselves, our strained relationship with others will no longer affect us. And even if it does, it won’t overpower us as it does now.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“But we all know that Humans are social animals. We can not stop communicating, so it became one of the biggest challenges we had to face as humankind. It’s true that humans can not stop communication, but the problem is that they don't know how to communicate properly either. Otherwise, Covid wouldn't have arisen in the first place. Thanks to mass media communication channels, this disease was somehow controlled. So, communication is both the cause and the remedy.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“Take your past as a lesson for a better tomorrow. Be a better person today. You have 24 hours each day; separate it from your last day. Every day is a new life, and when you live it like that, you will feel happier, more stable.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“your happiness is not someone else’s responsibility. It’s your very own.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“Whenever you think of only ‘I’, you lose the very grounds of socialisation”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“If one is not happy with oneself, he will want others to fulfil his need for happiness and will surely return disappointed most of the time. Others are not in this world to take care of your happiness; they are here to take care of theirs.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“Remember the happiness you felt when in the mathematics class you would solve one extra”
― Vinay Bansal, The Wheel Of Spirituality: A Joyful Journey to Siddhi

“Once there lived a Saint. He used to meditate for long hours, every day, and through his dedication, he had achieved great powers - magical powers. Although the talks of magical powers may seem very unscientific to a software engineer like you, these fictions are required by a psychologist to explain tough subjects. Take it as how we assume a principal amount as 100 in mathematics. Understand without scepticism what the story unfolds to you. When the Saint used to meditate, a mouse used to sit in his lap. The tiny animal wouldn’t disturb him but would accompany him.  Slowly over the period of months, the Saint grew fond of that mouse. It became his companion. One day a cat came when the Saint was meditating. The cat threatened to kill and eat that mouse. Hearing that, the Saint was annoyed, and he used his magical powers to turn the mouse into a bigger cat.  Everything went fine for a while. That bigger cat played around the Saint, and no animal tried to cross its path. But one day, a wild dog came and challenged this cat. The Saint again used his magical powers to convert the Cat into a Dog. Things went well for a while until the Saint heard the roar of a Lion nearby one day. Without wasting a second, the Saint turned his dog to a lion by magic. But this time, as soon as the Dog turned, it attacked the Saint. This Lion was the Ego.”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills

“trajectory”
― Vinay Bansal, Speaking sKills