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“Myth #2: Strict parenting creates well-behaved kids. This myth is particularly pervasive and potentially harmful. The idea is that if we just lay down the law firmly enough, our kids will fall in line. But research consistently shows that authoritarian parenting (high on control, low on warmth) often leads to rebellious behavior, especially in the teenage years. Love and Logic offers a balanced alternative. It's firm (that's the Logic part) but also warm and empathetic (there's the Love). Instead of rigid rules, we set clear expectations and allow natural consequences to do the teaching. This approach fosters internal motivation rather than mere compliance.”
― Ava Harper, Gentle Parenting, Clear Limits. How to Raise Responsible, Empathetic, and Confident Kids: Proven Neuroscience-Based Strategies to Foster Independence, ... intelligent, and tech-smart kids.)