Jonathan McKee > Quotes

“Your phone is not your problem. The problem is when we let our phone captivate us so significantly with the unimportant that we ignore the important all around us.”
― Jonathan McKee, The Teen's Guide to Social Media... & Mobile Devices: 21 Tips to Wise Posting in an Insecure World

“Death is more universal than life; everyone dies but not everyone lives.” ​-A. Sachs”
― Jonathan McKee, Bystanders: A Novel

“He plugged in his phone and chose a song from his favorite playlist. ​​<< Rock Star . . . Post Malone”
― Jonathan McKee, Bystanders: A Novel

“We need to change our perception of the word volunteer. We can’t see volunteer as a verb. We aren’t looking for someone “to volunteer.”
― Jonathan McKee, The New Breed: Understanding & Equipping the 21st Century Volunteer

“Are we creating spectators of the kingdom or participators and servants for the kingdom?” (The Youth Builder, 2001, Gospel Light, page 136)”
― Jonathan McKee, Ministry by Teenagers: Developing Leaders from Within

“Here’s an important principle to keep in mind: Every leader should serve, but not everyone who serves can lead.”
― Jonathan McKee, Ministry by Teenagers: Developing Leaders from Within

“Most parents look back at the outcomes of past parenting decisions and, unhappy with the results, make adjustments for the future. The intriguing part of this whole equation was the stigma that seemed to go along with these changes or adaptations. Most parents don’t advertise, “Here’s where I messed up!” It’s embarrassing! So they keep it to themselves. Sadly, their silence keeps other parents from learning from their mistakes.”
― Jonathan McKee, If I Had a Parenting Do-Over: 7 Vital Changes I'd Make

“No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. (1 Corinthians 10:13 NIV)”
― Jonathan McKee, The Guy's Guide to God, Girls, and the Phone in Your Pocket: 101 Real-World Tips for Teenaged Guys

“Ask personally rather than rely on announcements—get the first date. Remember that you’re not looking for someone “to volunteer.” You’re looking for someone to commit as a volunteer for your cause. Develop strategic recruiting partnerships—build your network or a recruiting team. Don’t go it alone. Recruit short-term project teams. The more specific the time limit, the more people you’ll likely get to join you to help with a project. And short-term commitments might open the door to longer commitments. Assume that a “no” means “not now,” or “not this position.” Think of a “no” as an open door to listen carefully to the reasons behind the “no.” Develop roles and responsibilities or a position charter for each position. Don’t fill any position until you find the person who matches what you’re looking for.”
― Jonathan McKee, The New Breed: Understanding & Equipping the 21st Century Volunteer

“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” -Abraham Lincoln”
― Jonathan McKee, Bystanders: A Novel

“Parents have to intervene. We have to stop giving our kids free access to social media and phones at young ages. They are not ready for it. Their minds cannot cope with the dopamine.[7] Dopamine is a chemical released in the reward centers of the brain that helps you remember what feels good when you do certain activities, like taking drugs or playing the slots in Vegas. The next time that particular activity is dangled before your senses, dopamine gives you a rush, triggering the anticipation of good feelings and fueling a desire to engage in the activity even more. For that reason, dopamine-triggering behaviors easily become a habit, which is why most studies show that social media leads to more social media. (And since I’m not a neuroscientist, I’m going to leave it at that.)”
― Jonathan McKee, Parenting Generation Screen: Guiding Your Kids to Be Wise in a Digital World