Mali Apple > Quotes

“Love is the recognition of the equal in the other,” he liked to say. “When you diminish another person, you lose their ability to contribute to you.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“The moment we immerse ourselves in fearful thoughts about what our lover is thinking, or indulge in speculation about their motives or intentions, we disconnect from ourselves and instantly feel uncertain and insecure.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“It’s unrealistic to expect that other people will respond to the world in the same way we do—that what bothers us will bother them and that what’s important to us will be important to them.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“True strength comes from how much flexibility we have to adapt to our constantly changing world.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“Your beliefs create your experience. If a belief you have isn’t bringing you the experience you desire, you have three choices. You can continue to feel disappointed and resentful every time life doesn’t live up to your belief. You can trade up, replacing your belief with one that has a better chance of bringing you what you want. Or you can let go of your belief altogether and choose to accept life exactly as it shows up. Get this one idea down—that your beliefs create your experience and that what you believe is up to you—and life will begin to flow much more easily.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“I bring inspiration to our relationship to keep it playful and exciting.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“Changing or letting go of beliefs and positions that aren’t working for you will go a long way toward making you available for the enlightened relationship you desire. This is true both before you enter a relationship and when you’re in one.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“Many relationships break down when one partner continually tries to improve or fix what they perceive as the other’s problems or shortcomings. In addition to a natural resistance to being told what to do or what’s best for them, the person being “helped” rarely feels that their partner is really supporting who they are and where they’d like to go.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“I provide a safe and loving space for our relationship.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“I create a safe environment so we both feel supported and loved.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“I bring warmth and intimacy to our relationship,”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“Get this one idea down—that your beliefs create your experience and that what you believe is up to you—and life will begin to flow much more easily.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“I create an environment for all of us to be our very best selves”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“The wider your circle becomes, the more space you will have to sustain a healthy relationship.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

“You know your time with them is limited, so you make the most of it.”
― Mali Apple, The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships