Ellen Kirschman > Quotes

“It takes guts to be married to someone who, in times of crisis, may be more available to strangers than to his or her own family. It takes determination to stay home alone at night, fortitude to go to a party by yourself, persistence to be both mother and father, and spunk to say what you really think. It might even take courage for you to read this book.”
― Ellen Kirschman, I Love a Fire Fighter: What the Family Needs to Know

“The only noise is the engine on the medic van. It runs steadily, the broken heart of a failed enterprise.”
― Ellen Kirschman, Burying Ben: A Dot Meyerhoff Mystery

“Encourage your loved one to eat a healthy diet, exercise regularly, maintain a reasonable weight, stop smoking, and consume alcohol in moderation. If you can’t get your fire fighter to cooperate, model a healthy lifestyle yourself. A new study of 4,700 couples showed that there is a strong association between the health of husbands and the health of wives. Married people tend to follow the same kinds of diets, for better or worse, or to smoke if their spouse does.”
― Ellen Kirschman, I Love a Fire Fighter: What the Family Needs to Know

“What you resist persists. Previous traumas that are unresolved or hidden have a significant influence in amplifying current traumatic events and hindering recovery.”
― Ellen Kirschman, I Love a Cop: What Police Families Need to Know