Alexandra Silber > Quotes

“He loved her. He loved her because nature willed it. Because they were already united and of one body. The bare flesh on every part of her belonged to him. The scent emitting from her skin was his.”
― Alexandra Silber, After Anatevka

“Hodel saw it through her sister’s eyes: women were created to be in every way partners, not mindless slaves or brainless doormats, but helpers, collaborators, equals. And that was a thing of great beauty”
― Alexandra Silber, After Anatevka

“For now, I look to God, for I know He will respond to my questions. For I believe, in the deepest part of my heart, that He shall truly bring us into a frame of mind where we may hear His greatest responses . . . Perhaps not the final answers, but at the very least, the next response we need.”
― Alexandra Silber, After Anatevka

“Success is not about what you do, it's about you feel about what you do.”
― Alexandra Silber

“Remember: it is not about what happens to you, but what you choose to DO WITH what happens to you that truly defines who you are.”
― Alexandra Silber

“The good we do.
How much we create.
The respect we bestow.
How hard we love—no one gets to vote on these.”
― Alexandra Silber

“When an audience witnesses [that kind of] art, there is possibility for her soul to lurch in true human recognition: 

—“Yes,” the audience responds, “That is me; that is my life too…” Achieve that quiet miracle and an artist has fulfilled their ultimate calling. So be brave. Don't aim for 'bravo,' aim for 'me too.”
― Alexandra Silber

“I did it by myself, but I didn't do it alone.”
― Alexandra Silber

“Free a man of the constraints that limit and inhibit his development, and you have a free human being. Freedom is the natural state of man.” He looked away from the boy for a moment and recalled his youth, his own search for self. “My boy,” he imparted with a ferocious passion that shook them both by the throat, “there is nothing negative about our human potential—do you understand me? God Himself created you the way you are. Do not let anyone in this world convince you otherwise. And you are capable of anything, my boy. There is and shall always be a disparity among the gifts God has granted men, but we all deserve equal consideration. All men, no matter how low, how basic, or how tormented, deserve compassion, dignified brotherhood, and respect.
“But part of respecting all men is respecting ourselves. Recognizing that God has blessed you. By embracing these gifts, we live as God lives, with love for all He has created—with an open heart.”
― Alexandra Silber, After Anatevka

“There is a kind of transaction that occurs between a person and a place: you give the place something and it gives you something in return. In years to come, Hodel would know for certain not only what Nerchinsk had taken, but what it had given her as well.”
― Alexandra Silber, After Anatevka

“Hodel saw it through her sister's eyes: women were created to be in every way partners, not mindless slaves or brainless doormats, but helpers, collaborators, equals. And that was a thing of great beauty.”
― Alexandra Silber, After Anatevka

“While we must always strive to grow beyond those who come before us, we must revere and learn from those that broke the ground originally, endeavor to honor their legacy, and then continue in our own vision.”
― Alexandra Silber

“And life can have its way with me. It won't break me. Neither you nor me. That determined faith in our own resilience is our only weapon against the cynical, the weak, those who talk of honor but do not practice the word they so loudly and vigorously screech.”
― Alexandra Silber