Jolene Brackey > Quotes

“Be like a duck . . . keep calm and unruffled on the surface but paddle like the devil underneath. —Unknown”
― Jolene Brackey, Creating Moments of Joy for the Person with Alzheimer's or Dementia: A Journal for Caregivers

“Everything is in the process of being forgotten. But who we are—who we have been in mood, in personality, in character—persists much longer”
― Jolene Brackey, Creating Moments of Joy for the Person with Alzheimer's or Dementia: A Journal for Caregivers

“There are times when we cannot function and we need to withdraw and regroup. There are situations that we know we cannot handle. In spite of all the pushing and urging of friends and family who insist that we will have a wonderful time, the patient senses that it will lead to his mental devastation. If I do not listen to my body and withdraw from the overstimulation, it takes several days for my intellectual abilities to return. This is very frightening because I can’t help wondering each time this happens if I’ve pushed myself totally over the line of no return.”
― Jolene Brackey, Creating Moments of Joy Along the Alzheimer's Journey: A Guide for Families and Caregivers

“People who have dementia need to have structure and routine every day, in order to get a better day.”
― Jolene Brackey, Creating Moments of Joy for the Person with Alzheimer's or Dementia: A Journal for Caregivers