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“Being consistent about where and when you do an activity with your parent is important. People with dementia are mentally sharper in the morning. They are more responsive and capable of performing and succeeding with tasks at that time. As the day goes on and draws nearer to dusk, “sundowning” occurs. This frequently seen symptom of dementia is evidenced by an increase in confusion and agitation as daylight diminishes.”
― Judith A. Levy, Activities to Do with Your Parent Who Has Alzheimer's Dementia

“The following questions must now be answered: How do I, as the child or caretaker, find an activity that will be challenging without being demeaning? How can I spend my time with her in the most meaningful way?”
― Judith A. Levy, Activities to Do with Your Parent Who Has Alzheimer's Dementia

“Another area to be concerned about is how you speak with your parent while he or she is doing an activity. Remember, in most cases your parent is trying to please you. He or she might struggle to do what you ask as comprehension becomes more and more difficult. In your parent’s past, everything might have come easily to him or her; with the onset of dementia, however, you will find that this ease has markedly changed. He or she will become frustrated, as will you. Your parent will try hard to succeed at what you ask him or her to do, so step back and take a deep breath. Offer directions in simple one-to two-step commands, repeating them as needed to help stimulate his or her memory. Don’t forget to offer words of praise. Tell him or her, “What a good job you have done” or “I am proud of you.” This reinforcement will go a long way toward his or her success.”
― Judith A. Levy, Activities to Do with Your Parent Who Has Alzheimer's Dementia