K.C. Davis > Quotes

“Many self-help gurus overattribute their success to their own hard work without any regard to the physical, mental, or economic privileges they hold.”
― K.C. Davis

“Shame is a horrible long-term motivator. It is more likely to contribute to dysfunction and continued cycles of unsustainable practices.”
― K.C. Davis

“You don't exist to serve your space; your space exists to serve you.”
― K.C. Davis

“This is what I try to teach my children when we talk about care tasks in our home. Instead of telling them that contributing is a moral obligation, I place the value on our attitudes towards one another. I want my kids to be responsible, yes. But just as important, I want them to know that it's okay to not "pull their weight" when they are sick with the flu. I want my kids to grow up to care for others and treat them fairly without being crushed by the false guilt of thinking their worth is tied to how much they can produce or contribute.”
― K.C. Davis, How to Keep House While Drowning