Ruthie Dean > Quotes

“Texting is not a real connection. Text-based relationships can bring a false sense of intimacy —the same way following your favorite blogger doesn’t mean you actually know him or her. It’s easy to feel exhilarated and even connected by rapid-fire, flirty text banter, but text chemistry doesn’t hold any weight offscreen. Too many settle for this emotionally addictive buzz in lieu of a real connection.”
― Ruthie Dean, Real Men Don't Text: A New Approach to Dating

“Confidence is the quiet assurance you are enough.”
― Ruthie Dean, Real Men Don't Text: A New Approach to Dating

“We won’t know if we’re compatible unless we have sex.” How many people do you know who waited until marriage to have sex and then “weren’t compatible” sexually? Sexual compatibility is a myth, because it’s based on selfish desires and comparison. You will be sexually compatible with someone you love deeply. That’s how it’s designed to work.”
― Ruthie Dean, Real Men Don't Text: A New Approach to Dating

“would ignore all the late-night calls or texts and decline all last-minute “hangouts” or “dates.”
― Ruthie Dean, Real Men Don't Text: A New Approach to Dating

“Relationships program our minds as to what is and isn't an acceptable way to be treated.”
― Ruthie Dean, Real Men Don't Text: A New Approach to Dating