Amanda Craig > Quotes

“It’s not by accident that people talk of a state of confusion as not being able to see the wood for the trees, or of being out of the woods when some crisis is surmopunted. It is a place of loss, confusion, terror and anger, a place where you can, like Dante, find yourself going down into Hell. But if it’s any comfort, the dark wood isn’t just that. It’s also a place of opportunity and adventure. It is the place in which fortunes can be reversed, hearts mended, hopes reborn.”
― Amanda Craig

“If you read fairy tales carefully, you’ll notice they are mostly about people who aren’t heroes. They don’t have special powers, or gifts. Often they are despised as stupid, They are bullied, beaten up, robbed, starved. But they find they are stronger than their misfortunes.”
― Amanda Craig, In a Dark Wood

“Mostly, what people mean by love is laziness.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“Hatred bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“Novelists,’ said Ivo, ‘are to the nineties what cooks were to the eighties, hairdressers to the seventies and pop-stars to the sixties… Merely, you know, an expression of the Zeitgeist, Nobody actually reads novels any more, but it’s a fashionable thing to be a novelist – as long as you don’t entertain people of course. I sometimes think,’ said Ivo, his eyes like industrial diamonds, ‘that my sole virtue is, I’m the only person in London who has no intention of writing any kind of novel, ever.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“I knew exactly when the fever had struck. I had been reading Hamlet in an English class at school. Everyone else stumbled, puzzling over the strange words. Then it had been my turn, and the language had suddenly woken in me, so that my heart and lungs and tongue and throat were on fire. Later, I understood that this was why people spoke of Shakespeare as a god. At the time, I felt like weeping. Somebody had released me from dumbness, from utter isolation. I knew that I could live inside these words, that they would give me a a shape, a shell. I had no idea, then, that I would never play Hamlet…. I’m an actor, and in a good year I earn eleven thousand pounds for dressing up as a carrot.”
― Amanda Craig, In a Dark Wood

“But this city is a world of its own, a country within a country. People are used to taking the old and making it news; and used, too, to taking the new and making it old. Every glass of water from its taps, it is said, has passed six times through the kidneys of another, and every scrap of its land has been trodden on, fought over, dug up and broken down for centuries.”
― Amanda Craig, Hearts and Minds

“Each morning the light came through the slats of the shutters in ripples, and as it washed towards the inhabitants of the Casa Luna it smoothed away memories of the past, It was for this that they had endured long hours in the grey English winter or freezing American climes, for this that they had worked and planned and worked extra hours/ The horrible feelings of stress, tension, anger and frustration that coursed through their veins every day almost unnoticed began to fade.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“Very happy or unhappy, people disappear.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“That is the worst thing about despair: it is not constant, any more than love is.”
― Amanda Craig, In a Dark Wood

“People who love reading are often called bookworms — but that’s the wrong way around. It’s not you that worms into a book; it’s books that worm into you.” — Amanda Craig”
― Amanda Craig

“It’s the remarkable thing about academics: they look at Shakespeare and always see their own faces in him.”
― Amanda Craig, Love in Idleness

“You know the only rule you need to know to get on in this country? ‘Never complain, never explain.”
― Amanda Craig, Hearts and Minds

“I had been much more in love with my wife than she with me, that was all. Somehow, you were supposed to be ashamed of this, as though love were a perpetual jostling for the roles of pursuer and pursued. As if it didn’t take more courage to admit that someone held your hopes of happiness in their hands. As if it were a choice.”
― Amanda Craig, In a Dark Wood

“It’s all biology. If it weren’t for two thousand years of the Christian tradition we wouldn’t think of pretending otherwise…Romance is the true opiate of the masses.”
― Amanda Craig, Love in Idleness

“Every profession is an island whose inhabitants earn a precarious living by taking in each other’s washing.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“A hundred years ago, people had perfectly understood that you could die of a broken heart, now they thought you were making a fuss about nothing…Certain kinds of suffering are like radiation: they cause furious growth and mutation of the inner self.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“Family is all politics. Everyone hates each other’s guts, if they’re honest… Most brothers and sisters try to top each other, given the chance; you always get the worst wars in countries with big families….People have kids because they go soft in the head, tarts especially. They forget what it’s like to be a kid themselves and want to remember through their own. They don’t want us, not real brand-new people who puke and criticise and tell them to bog off: they want their own frigging innocence back. They want to have their own lives back again, with the bad bits taken out. Quite frankly, they’d be better off with a dog.”
― Amanda Craig

“What frightened me most was, I could no longer believe in my own life as a story. Everyone needs a story, a part to play in order to avoid the realization that life is without significance. How else do any of us survive? It’s what makes life bearable, even interesting. When it becomes neither, people say you’ve lost the plot. Or just lost it.”
― Amanda Craig, In a Dark Wood

“There was a certain usefulness in having a husband whom most people could barely tolerate: it deflected envy, for one thing.”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“Familiarity breeds sentiment before contempt.”
― Amanda Craig

“He had heard the voice of London that lives and breathes beneath the rumble of traffic, a voice like the continual high-pitched shriek you hear when you put your head beneath the waves of the sea. It is the sound of millions and millions of creatures living and struggling and dying and being born. It commands those who hear it to eat or be eaten..”
― Amanda Craig, A Vicious Circle

“Every time you read a book your mind touches that of the person who wrote it – even if they died a long time ago.”
― Amanda Craig, Hearts and Minds

“If you read fairy-tales carefully, you’ll notice they are mostly about people who aren’t heroes. They don’t have special powers, or gifts. Often they are despised as stupid. They are bullied, beaten up, robbed, starved. But they find they are stronger than their misfortunes.”
― Amanda Craig, In a Dark Wood

“To thoughtful natures, events are like depth charges: the surface is calm, but the shock spreads further.”
― Amanda Craig

“They might watch American movies, wear American clothes, even read American books but Bush and the Iraq War have made actual American people social lepers; she only has to open her mouth in some places to feel a wave of loathing directed at her. Katie is weary of pointing out that at least half her countrymen detest their President even more than Europe does, but it’s no good.”
― Amanda Craig

“I am a Jewish mother. My dying words will be, “Put a jumper on”
― Amanda Craig, Hearts and Minds

“It’s so easy to believe that others deserve their fate, and the fact was that if nobody bothered to help other people then the worst would always happen… She stares out of her window at the busy street, where the British go about their daily business, taking it for granted that they will never be arrested for not voting the right way, praying the right way, dressing the right way or for belonging to a different tribe.”
― Amanda Craig, Hearts and Minds

“I’ll tell you the difference between our countries. Americans think life is serious but not hopeless; the English that life is hopeless but not serious.”
― Amanda Craig, Hearts and Minds

“Few pretty and privileged young women really understand the essential injustice of biology...For most of her life as a woman, the rules were perfectly clear cut: other women were the enemy, and all love was war. She had rejected feminism, quite openly, as a crutch for the envious and ugly, and regarded married women as holding the upper hand if, unlike her own mother, they had any strength of character. The weaknesses and dependencies imposed by fecundity had never entered into her calculations.”
― Amanda Craig