John Gray > Quotes

“When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift.
He makes it safe for her to express herself.
The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“‎" when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom ”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love .
The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“we are unique individuals with unique experiences”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“If we are to feel the positive feelings of love, happiness, trust, and gratitude, we periodically also have to feel anger, sadness, fear, and sorrow.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“ان اكبر تحديات الرجل ترجمة كلام المرأة اذا تحدثت و مساندتها بالتفهم والتأييد المناسبين للموقف و لمشاعرها... و اكبر تحديات المرأة تأويل صمت الرجل و مساندته بتقبله و دعمه بان تترك له المساحة التي يحتاج اليها”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Men feel cherished when they are needed.
Women feel cherished when they are loved.

Indonesian version (Bahasa):

Kaum pria jadi termotivasi dan bersemangat kala mereka merasa dibutuhkan.

Kaum wanita jadi termotivasi dan bersemangat kala mereka merasa dicintai.”
― john gray

“To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are. Through loving a person we awaken their awareness of their own innate goodness. It is as though they cannot know how worthy they are until they look into the mirror of our love and see themselves.”
― John Gray

“Get the love you deserve and gave your partner the love and support he deserves”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Books can inspire you to love yourself more, but by listening to, writing out, or verbally expressing your feelings you are actually doing it.”
― John Gray

“لا يدرك الرجل بـ أن الشئ القليل بـ النسبة إلي المرأة مهم تماما مثل الشئ الكبير :)”
― John Gray, الرجال من المريخ والنساء من الزهرة: كتاب الأيام 365 فكرة لإثراء علاقاتك

“و النساء مثل الزهريات يحفزن و يتمكن عندما يشعرن بأنهن معززات ,, و عندما لا تشعر امرأة بأنها معززة في إطار علاقة تصبح تدريجيا مسئولة بطريقة قهرية و منهكة من البذل الزائد ,, و من ناحية أخرى عندما تشعر بأنها تلقى الرعاية و الاحترام فإنها تكون مشبعة ولديها المزيد من العطاء أيضا .”
― John Gray, الرجال من المريخ والنساء من الزهرة: كتاب الأيام 365 فكرة لإثراء علاقاتك

“Men need to remember that women talk about problems to get close and not necessarily to get solutions.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Sunday Times Bestsellar and definitive relationship guide

“تشعر المرأه بالدعم والمسانده اذا صدق الرجل مشاعرها , ويشعر الرجل بالرعاية والاهتمام اذا وافقته المرأة افكارها ”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“المشاركة في مشكلاتك مع شخص آخر تعتبر على سطح الزهرة في الحقيقة علامة حب وثقة وليس عبئا”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“When a woman's wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness and needs to be filled up with love.”
― Gray John, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“حاجات النساء للشعور بالتحسن عن طريق التحدث عن المشكلات أما الرجال عن طريق حل المشكلات”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways—the ways we react and behave when we love someone.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Sunday Times Bestsellar and definitive relationship guide

“Mental chemistry creates interest, Emotional chemistry Generates Affection, Physical chemistry generates desire, and Spiritual chemistry creates love. A soulmate includes all four...and I will not settle for anything less!”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex

“When negative feelings are suppressed positive feelings become suppressed as well, and love dies.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Wanita senang hatinya bila mempunyai teman yang dapat berbagi kesulitannya.

Lelaki senang hatinya bila dapat memecahkan kesulitannya sendirian di guanya.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Remember, if a man needs to pull away like a rubber band, when he returns he will be back with a lot more love. Then he can listen. This is the best time to initiate conversation.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“تتحدث النساء لنفس الاسباب التي يتوقف الرجال بسببها عن الكلام”
― John Gray

“That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person.”
― John Gray, Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship

“A man's deepest fear is that he is not good enough or that he is incompetent. He compensates for this fear by focusing on increasing his power and competence. Success, achievement, and efficiency are foremost in his life ... A man appears most uncaring when he is afraid.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“A woman should not be judged for needing this reassurance, just as a man should not be judged for needing to withdraw.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex