Deborah Anna Luepnitz
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“This etymology puts me in mind of Winnicott’s notion of potential space–that intermediate area between the subjective and objective in which creativity and play occur. Psychotherapy is akin to play, according to Winnicott. Therapy takes place neither inside the mind of the patient nor inside that of the therapist, but in some middle area, in the potential space between them.”
― Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy And Its Dilemmas: Five Stories Of Psychotherapy
― Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy And Its Dilemmas: Five Stories Of Psychotherapy
“Freud wrote: “The evidence of psychoanalysis shows that almost every intimate emotional relation between two people which lasts for some time–marriage, friendship, the relations between parents and children–contains a sediment of feelings of aversion and hostility, which only escapes perception as a result of repression.” Freud believed that the one exception to this was the love of a mother for her son, which was “based on narcissism,” proving only that he was, among many other things, an Old World Patriarch.”
― Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy And Its Dilemmas: Five Stories Of Psychotherapy
― Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy And Its Dilemmas: Five Stories Of Psychotherapy
“Winnicott’s key word was “mothering,” Lacan’s was “desire.” For Lacan, desire is what simultaneously defines us as human subjects and what prevents us from ever being whole or complete. To desire something, after all, is to lack something. Whereas Winnicott’s tropes tended toward the organic–he spoke of “growth,” “development,” and “maturity”–Lacan’s imagery was more somber. (“The cipher of his mortal destiny” is characteristically Lacanian.) For Win-nicott, only in illness was the self divided, while for Lacan human subjectivity was necessarily divided, because of the existence of the unconscious. No matter how successful we become, no matter how much we are loved, we will always be vulnerable to irrational fears and capable of the most self-defeating acts. As Freud said, we can never be “master of our own house.”
― Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy And Its Dilemmas: Five Stories Of Psychotherapy
― Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy And Its Dilemmas: Five Stories Of Psychotherapy
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