Julie Rodgers

“Ex-gay leaders had a narrative that explained stories like Kevin’s: that’s what happens when you choose to give in to your flesh, they would say. The gay lifestyle is full of drugs and binge sex with strangers. They never said people like Kevin were driven to destructive behaviors because of shame-based cycles of repression and religious prohibition. No, people like Kevin who embraced the lifestyle embodied the ethics and ideals of the LGBTQ community. Ex-gay leaders denied the existence of a loving, committed same-sex relationship. According to leaders in my community, true love was only possible among heterosexual Christians.”
― Julie Rodgers, Outlove: A Queer Christian Survival Story

“If you want to convince people you’re not just out to protect yourselves and that you’re ready to move beyond the culture wars, maybe you could try advocating for the rights of LGBTQ people to be protected from basic discrimination.”
― Julie Rodgers, Outlove: A Queer Christian Survival Story