David J. Engelsma

“The evangelism of Billy Graham is revered, so that if one dares to call the message of Graham the doctrine of Pelagius out of hell, as the Canons of Dordt do indeed call it, he is likely to be stoned as a blasphemer in the streets of Reformed Jerusalem. (3rd edn, p. 63)”
― David J. Engelsma, Hyper-Calvinism and the Call of the Gospel: An Examination of the Well-Meant Gospel Offer

“Suppose that the parents are true believers. Suppose, moreover, that they take seriously their church’s teaching (as they should!) that all children are unsaved until converted in later life. What follows from this for the parents’ dealings with their children? They must not allow the children to participate in the parents’ prayers. As unregenerate, the children cannot pray. Besides, the prayer of the unrighteous is abomination to God (Prov. 28:9). Parents cannot allow the children to recite with them the Lord’s Prayer or even to think themselves included when the parents pray this prayer. For God is not the Father of these children in Christ. The children must sit by with their eyes open and their hands unfolded. Father and mother cannot call the little children to honor and obey them in obedience to the fifth commandment. For the children neither love God, nor their neighbor for God’s sake. As unsaved, they cannot obey the fifth commandment. The parents must tell them this. Order in the home is purely a matter of external behavior motivated either by natural love or by fear of the rod.”
― David J. Engelsma, The Covenant of God and the Children of Believers: Sovereign Grace in the Covenant