Billy Baker
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“The social joys of making a meal with friends are known to all who have done so/”
― We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends
― We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends
“...Freud's theory of self-determination...argues that human beings need three things in order to be content: They need to feel competent at what they do; they need to feel authentic in their lives; and they need to feel connected to others. He considered these three pillars--autonomy, competence, and community--to be intrinsic to human happiness.”
― We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends
― We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends
“In a wonderful essay for -Salon-, the sociologist Lisa Wade wrote that 'to be close friends, men need to be willing to confess their insecurities, to be kind to others, have empathy and sometimes sacrifice their own self-interest. "Real Men," though, are not supposed to do these things. They are supposed to be self-interested, competitive, non-emotional, strong (with no insecurities at all), and able to deal with their emotional problems without help. Being a good friend, then, as well as needing a good friend, is the equivalent of being girly.”
― We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends
― We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends
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