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Matthew Fray

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I am a writer and relationship coach.

I got divorced in 2013 and thought I was going to die. And that's maybe a little dramatic, but it's true. I struggled with normal stuff like breathing. The way I felt every day of my life had been replaced by some suckier feeling. And everything I was certain of -- everything I was counting on happening tomorrow and the next day and next year all went up in smoke. So I went to work on figuring out what happened. Questions like "What did I do to contribute to this?" or "What could I have done differently to prevent this?" were routinely on my mind. So I drank too much one night and started writing about it on the internet.

And something magical happened. People "got" it. My story was their story. My dysfu
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“Every day—every conversation, every moment—is an opportunity to move closer to one another or further apart. You get to choose.”
Matthew Fray, This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships

“We didn’t go down in a fiery explosion. We bled out from 10,000 paper cuts.”
Matthew Fray, This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships

“It occurred to me later that I didn’t have to understand WHY my wife cared about the things that she did. (Though I think digging for that “why” is always a worthwhile exercise.) The only thing I needed to understand was that my wife did care. I needed to understand what was important to her and what was not important to her. And then demonstrate respect for things on her This Is Important to Me list.”
Matthew Fray, This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships

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