Drew Pinsky

“What our culture lacks are honest messages about what it really means to be a healthy human being. Or how you make humans grow.”
― Drew Pinsky, Cracked: Putting Broken Lives Together Again

“In The Metamorphoses, the Roman poet Ovid tells the story of a handsome youth named Narcissus, a tale he learned from Greek mythology. Narcissus is so intent on his own desires that he is unable to fall in love, rejecting the advances of all who are attracted to him. Never having seen his own image, he understands the power of his beauty only through the reactions others have to him. When he rebuffs the love of Echo, a nymph, her unrequited passion causes her to waste away and die. When one of Echo’s handmaidens prays to Nemesis, the goddess of revenge, Nemesis responds by declaring that Narcissus shall get a taste of his own medicine: If he should ever fall in love, he will be denied the very thing he so desires. One day, while stopping to drink from a forest pool, Narcissus catches a glimpse of his reflection in the smooth water. Smitten by the sight, he falls madly in love with his own beautiful image. He lies next to the pond, staring at his own reflection in the water. But whenever he reaches into the water and tries to embrace the image, it dissolves. Unable to kiss, or hold, or in any way capture his true heart’s desire, he too dies of unrequited love.”
― Drew Pinsky, The Mirror Effect: How Celebrity Narcissism Is Endangering Our Families—and How to Save Them