Simcha Fisher

“Sometimes difficulty clarifies things. And sometimes realizing that the road you’ve chosen is a demanding one gives you the courage to stay on that road. It reveals the nature of our relationship with God. It sounds cute and comforting to say “God is in control,” and people who say that may imagine sitting on their daddy’s lap behind the wheel of the family car, going “Vroom vroomy vroom!” while Daddy does the steering. In reality, when God is in control, it feels more like one of those movies where some amateur has to step up and land the airplane or steer the ship to safety through a crashing storm, with an expert giving them instructions remotely through a headset. In theory, following the expert’s instructions will help us get in safely; but our fear, panic, self-doubt, and lack of skill are not exactly comforting. Yes, God is in control, but we’re the ones who are in for a rough ride.”
― Simcha Fisher, The Sinner's Guide to Natural Family Planning

“If you’re struggling with NFP, it’s not because you’re a crappy person, or because the Church doesn’t understand what sex is like in real life. It’s because, for some people, NFP is a genuine and significant cross.”
― Simcha Fisher, The Sinner's Guide to Natural Family Planning