Julie Schwartz Gottman
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“Your job here is to make your partner feel safe enough to tell you what’s behind their position on the issue: their belief, dream, or story.”
― Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
― Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
“Conflict is connection. It’s how we figure out who we are, what we want, who our partners are and who they are becoming, and what they want. It’s how we bridge our differences and find our similarities, our points of connection. The problem is, we haven’t been taught how to do it right.”
― Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
― Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
“It’s not your job to improve your partner. That’s solely your partner’s job. Your job is to be the best version of yourself that you can be. And if you are kinder even during conflicts, your partner will likely cooperate more too. It’s a win/win.”
― Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
― Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
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