Daniel Bates
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Olympia, WA, The United States
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A.W. Tozer, V.S. Ramachandran, William Lane Craig, Bernard McGinn
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January 2013
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“Your child’s sense of security is not grounded in how perfect you are, but in the quality of the relationship you have.”
― When Parenting Backfires: Twelve Thinking Errors that Undermine Parents Effectiveness
― When Parenting Backfires: Twelve Thinking Errors that Undermine Parents Effectiveness
“In order to break your child’s negative cycle, you must first break your own cycle of negative perception. You must take on a strengths-based perspective. Look for the good, which in some cases may require you to get creative. Do this even when it’s hard. This sends a powerful message to children even when they are behaving poorly. You are sending the message that you believe in them, you see that there is more to them than their bad behavior, and you are painting a future picture of what they can become.”
― When Parenting Backfires: Twelve Thinking Errors that Undermine Parents Effectiveness
― When Parenting Backfires: Twelve Thinking Errors that Undermine Parents Effectiveness
“High demands and expectations without skill development, encouragement or the feeling of a “win” will lead to resentment. Demanding perfection is exhausting on the part of the person making the demands and on the person of whom the perfection is demanded.”
― When Parenting Backfires: Twelve Thinking Errors that Undermine Parents Effectiveness
― When Parenting Backfires: Twelve Thinking Errors that Undermine Parents Effectiveness
“A Spiritual Discipline is an intentionally directed action which places us in a position to receive from God the power to do what we cannot accomplish on our own....
The deep waters of God's life are already flowing. We simply learn the strokes that will enable us more and more to be at home in them....
The human body is our power-pack of mind-body-spirit -- we discipline it in order to practice cooperation with God. (Life with God, p. 135-137)”
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The deep waters of God's life are already flowing. We simply learn the strokes that will enable us more and more to be at home in them....
The human body is our power-pack of mind-body-spirit -- we discipline it in order to practice cooperation with God. (Life with God, p. 135-137)”
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“Because the Christian God is not a lonely God, but rather a communion of three persons, faith leads human beings into the divine communion. One cannot, however, have a self-enclosed communion with the Triune God- a "foursome," as it were-- for the Christian God is not a private deity. Communion with this God is at once also communion with those others who have entrusted themselves in faith to the same God. Hence one and the same act of faith places a person into a new relationship both with God and with all others who stand in communion with God.”
― After Our Likeness: The Church as the Image of the Trinity
― After Our Likeness: The Church as the Image of the Trinity
“You can’t go on “seeing through” things forever. The whole point of seeing through something is to see something through it. To “see through” all things is the same as not to see.”
― The Abolition of Man
― The Abolition of Man
“I have frequently seen people become neurotic when they content themselves with inadequate or wrong answers to the questions of life. They seek position, marriage, reputation, outward success of money, and remain unhappy and neurotic even when they have attained what they were seeking. Such people are usually confined within too narrow a spiritual horizon. Their life has not sufficient content, sufficient meaning. If they are enabled to develop into more spacious personalities, the neurosis generally disappears.”
― Memories, Dreams, Reflections
― Memories, Dreams, Reflections

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