Not sure I agree with this...some people are who they are despite the pain they suffer...others are worn down and/or destroyed by pain, especially pain from abuse. Pain inflicted upon you is not "good" for anything. Kindness and love are more likely to produce "better" people. Enduring pain may help you endure pain.
I'm reading the book right now...thanks for writing it.
I'm reading the book right now...thanks for writing it.