Jem’s
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(group member since Dec 30, 2022)
Jem’s
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from the Ranting and Reading Collective group.
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Halfway through, I was unconvinced. It felt like a nice but unremarkable tale of friendship. The political and social upheaval in Iran at the time seemed to be little more than a watercolour backdrop to a coming-of-age story. But the story shifts and grows, as do the protagonists, and as we hear it from more perspectives, the full picture develops into a hyperreal memory.
It is melancholy and hard-hitting without being gratuitous. It conveys a feeling of life growing up in Tehran in the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s—something I know very little about. It follows the day-to-day lives of two really different women whose friendship lasts decades in one form or another.
I have so much to say about this book, but I do not want to detract from other's experience of reading it fresh. I know it will stay with me for a long time, and I am glad to have read it. It hasn't revolutionised my life, but it has helped me to begin to understand why women make the choices they do when faced with regimes that are out to steal their hopes, dreams and joys. And it is a beautiful illustration of the friendship of women.

There's little to say against it, but for me, this is the downside. It was a little twee for my tastes (I just noted that Caroline used the same word, but more positively). It was a little too safe and a little too lovely. Sandi introduces profound, darker stories and then skates past them. I suspect this is an attempt to reframe the tired tropes, but it ended up feeling more like a fairy tale, undermining those efforts. I honestly thought that Dorothy was lovely, but truthfully, I would not have been surprised if she floated off on an umbrella or popped off in a puff of smoke at the end. It had a dreamy feel to it, which I found jarring with some of the very hefty topics it covered. The result was that I never believed in any of the characters, except for Dorothy, who was a fairy godmother from the start.


I'm looking forward to this one actually, as I think it might be helpful for me with E - and ofc lots of people I know! I thought I might audiobook that one. :D
