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Whereas Elizabeth just seemed to be really petty. She was totally self serving in wanting to elevate her family and not much else. But again I think Ned's decision probably made her a lot more ruthless...whereas earlier she was just kind of petty and rude after his reveal she was like full on evil.




Gabriel’s experience in the Dead is all about first him lacking passion and then later recognizing that absence in a very personal, painful way. From his initial conversation with Miss Ivors it’s clear Gabriel is a pretty ritualized person. He’s more interested in cycling around Europe than visiting his own country, because well that’s what he’s done for years. He seems totally involved in the Irish cultural movement, that was consuming Irish intellectuals at the time.
Later on he clings to his memories and desire for his wife as proof that he isn’t a stodgy stuck in his ways middle aged man. I think what touches him and saddens him is his feeling that Michael Furey actions and Gretta’s response to that song indicate they feel a level of passion he never attained. It reminded me of Where Angels Fear to Tread when Philip talks about how people fall in love and have feelings but he’s never in that room or part of those feelings. (I’m paraphrasing obviously). He also recognizes that even in death Michael Furey draws a more passionate response than his do….
As to Gretta I have no doubt whatsoever that she loves Gabriel. At the beginning of the evening, she is teasing him in the way long married couples will. Later on she clearly helps out as one of the family and never gives any hint she’d have it otherwise. I think the impact of the song, the memory and the weather bring on a very emotional response. I didn’t take that to infer she didn’t care for Gabriel or didn’t love him.
That said I’m not entirely certain the Dead makes passion appear any better of a choice. Passion drove Michael Furey to an early end. It causes Miss Ivors to be pointedly rude. Gabriel’s brief inflammation with passion leads to pain on his part. The memory of her youthful passion causes Gretta to sob herself to sleep.
I've had Ulysses on the brain for a bit as a book I have to read and now I do feel like it is absolutely going on my 2021 reading challenge,



While I like a lot of DES' work I think she has a habit of writing some characters as perfectly good and then setting the other character up as the opposite. It doesn't work for me as a reader but I can imagine the readers of her era probably adored it.
Abigail-regarding Philip I just read Elizabeth Taylor's In a Summer Season and she has a similar scenario where a wife and mother dies young. And the husband goes off one place for a long visit, and the daughter goes another. And the daughter comes back different. It was like it never occurred to the author that the idea of shipping a young teenage girl off right after she lost her mother was in any way odd. The entire concept boggles my mind.

As late as what 1981 the press and public swooned over Diana Spencer marrying a mid-30's bachelor who'd dated a string of girls. Even in that era very few upper class British girls went to university. The expectation was they'd marry and then they were their husband's responsibility.
And certainly before WWII, British girls were expected to marry very early. For that period, Caroline and Arnold's relationship was probably the norm rather than the exception. They met, spent a brief time together, then he went to speak to the parents. Hardly romantic but typical.
I tend to think to Arnold may have had some mental problems. Caroline seems to present him as a just a bit of a grump, but from Harriet's comments it seems far worse. And I can imagine if he did having a relentlessly cheerful wife probably did him absolutely no favors. I think it was one of those marriages where both parties needed someone totally different-but divorce would have been unthinkable in that era.
Caroline is lovely but I'm not sold she's the maternal sort at all. She seems clueless what to do with her daughters. I think that too happens. A woman is perfectly maternal and lovely to the people around her like comfort and the community but seems clueless about what's going on at home.

Shoulder the Sky is also titled Winter and Rough Weather. I read it in May and it was really great.

I'm also cool with reading any Godden.
In terms of suggestions in the fall I was hoping we'd read another Helen Macinnes. I think we've read one two years in a row and I always enjoy Macinnes
Karlyne-I've also added Mastering the Art of Soviet Cooking to my endless TBR pile. It sounds fascinating.