~Cyanide Latte~’s
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So, my guess is at this point a good way to sort of go about describing yourself might be panromantic-pansexual, perhaps with the addendum you have a somewhat slight male preference? (I might not be making sense and I apologize. Please correct me if anyone thinks I'm off course here, it's about 6:20 a.m. my time and I do not function well when I first wake up. )

I'm a major supporter for LGBTQ+ because I'm bisexual and was actually gender queer at one point. I used to go by Brennan as my Gender Queer..."
Nice to meet you, Rhodes!! ^^~ And hey, it sounds like we've got a bit in common already (as I've also had to move away not-by-choice and make my relationship with my high school sweetheart long distance for a time before moving back.) I'm glad your fiancé is so supportive of you~!! That's wonderful! (And hey, don't ever feel pressured to post; school totally takes priority, and I think most of us here can relate to that.)

That being said, in the event your boyfriend is unaware of your uncertainy regarding sexual attraction or lack thereof to him, I do strongly urge you to talk to him about it. It's critical that you both are on the same page regarding anything concerning sex. It currently sounds like you're not 100% sure where you might fall on the ace spectrum (sounds pretty ace to me, but sometimes we can be graysexual or demisexual without realizing it) apart from the knowledge that so far you've felt no sexual attraction to him or any other guy.
And you know what? That is okay. There's nothing wrong with not feeling those things. But it is very important to the health of your relationship that you discuss these things with him, no matter how frightening it may feel to have to discuss that with him.
