“Relationships happen in the margins. When there is no margin. It impossible to welcome others in to our lives. But how do we change this? Perhaps the two greatest helps our, first, affect of alignment rather than addition. In other words, don’t try to add more activities to your schedule but instead look at ways in which you can align your daily rhythms with the rhythms of life of those around you. And second be prepared to prune the activity branches. If you are serious about cream margin in your life, there’ll be times that something will need to be cut off. Furthermore we must be reminded that it is OK to say no.”