“A champion fighter once lost a match to an opponent he expected to defeat. After losing, he held his champion frame by believing and understanding that it was he who lost the fight, not the opponent who won it. This is important to understand, as this small mental maneuver maintained his mastery over what happened. This is called taking responsibility. The fighter trained for the next fight, accepting responsibility for his loss by continuing to train and overcoming the weaknesses that had led to him losing the previous fight. When the rematch came around, he won.”