“If there's one thing Elena and I have learned over these decades, it's that bad things happen that no one can stop divorce, illness, lost friendships, family heartbreak, and these awful awful catastrophes. They, sadly, are part of being alive. But so are joy, love, and happiness. These are things Elena and I missed out on when our lives ended too soon. So please, find those too. Make our sacrifice worth it.
You are not invisible, you are both unforgettable. Never doubt that.”