“One of the hardest things about givers is that they find it hard to receive. Sometimes we ask ourselves why good people are unlucky when it comes to relationships. It is because they give a lot and hardly receive. It is sometimes harder for givers to be compatible with their partners. They often give more, with no capacity to receive much. In the end, a man or woman feels like the giver is in control of the relationship, and nobody wants to be with a controller.”