“Remember that you win over panic by not resisting. Be patient and you will eventually get a spontaneous insight. It might sound like this: “Hey! Four out of the last twelve times when I said, ‘I can handle this; I want this,’ and really meant it, my anxiety just faded away. Another five times I stayed anxious, but I handled it fine. It didn’t leave, and I didn’t freak out. Maybe it really is all about how I respond. Cool.”