“When someone does you some wrong, you should consider immediately what judgement of good or evil led him to wrong you. When you see this, you will pity him, and not feel surprise or anger. You yourself either still share his view of good, or something like it, in which case you should understand and forgive; if, on the other hand, you no longer judge such things as either good or evil, it will be easier for you to be patient with the unsighted. (Penguin Classics translation, Book VII, section 26)”