“stuff” we get. You know everyone wants to get caught up in the “stuff”. And it’s your choice if you want to be in the “stuff” or not. At any point you can say, “No, it’s not my stuff. I don’t want to be in it. I choose not to and as soon as you say that, you are out of it! And you have a neutral place and you have an observer place, and it’s a matter of if you want to be on the roller coaster. Some people want to be on the roller coaster. They love the ups and the downs. That’s fine. That’s the ride. It’s just you choosing whichever way you want to take the ride. That’s all. If you want the full gambit of emotions, okay, fine. That’s all right! It just makes the ride a different experience.”