“Suffering through hardships doesn’t feel good. It hurts—and it is supposed to hurt! There is a reason for it, just as there is a reason the physical body feels pain: to alert you that something is endangering your well-being, that something isn’t right, so that you can avoid or fix it. So it is with your heart and your spirit: If you hurt, it’s because you are supposed to hurt when your life is moving in the wrong direction.”