“Community is a nice idea, but are we are ready to do the work it takes to forge a common, committed life with others on a daily basis, specially if it costs us? If we're honest, we'll recognize that we have been groomed to believe that our lives are ours to do so as we please and that our independence is more important than our involvement in whatever groups we happen to participate in, including the church. But forming community will never happen if we keep hanging onto our independence. Neither will happen if our schedules only allow us to meet together a couple of hours per week. We will have to form new lifestyle habits and dispense with old patterns of living and thinking. We will have to sacrifice convenience and give up private spaces and personal preferences. We will have to make concerted choices to forgo some of our personal freedom so that others can more naturally be in, and not just around, our lives. It will take work.”