“The basic theme in all ten challenges is the underlying challenge to main the connection in your primary relationship. What must you do on a day-to-day basis to maintain the connection to your partner? First, you must make your relationship—and this connection—a priority. Second, when you feel uncomfortable with your partner or the relationship, or when you sense your connection weakening, don't ignore your feelings. Third, and perhaps the most important, ingredient in the recipe for a healthy, intimate, and loving relationship is time. The best way to meet all the challenges to relationship is to take time for one another and for your relationship.”