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  • #1
    Daniel Goleman
    “Anyone can become angry —that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way —this is not easy. ARISTOTLE, The Nicomachean Ethics”
    Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

  • #2
    Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn
    “A state of war only serves as an excuse for domestic tyranny.”
    Alexander Solzhenitsyn

  • #3
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “Power is given only to him who dares to stoop and take it ... one must have the courage to dare.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment

  • #4
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “Above all, don't lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

  • #5
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in someone else's.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment

  • #6
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “What is hell? I maintain that it is the suffering of being unable to love.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

  • #7
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “Right or wrong, it's very pleasant to break something from time to time.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky

  • #8
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “Man is sometimes extraordinarily, passionately, in love with suffering...”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky

  • #9
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “Don’t let us forget that the causes of human actions are usually immeasurably more complex and varied than our subsequent explanations of them.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Idiot

  • #10
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “Besides, nowadays, almost all capable people are terribly afraid of being ridiculous, and are miserable because of it.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

  • #11
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “I could not become anything; neither good nor bad; neither a scoundrel nor an honest man; neither a hero nor an insect. And now I am eking out my days in my corner, taunting myself with the bitter and entirely useless consolation that an intelligent man cannot seriously become anything, that only a fool can become something.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground, White Nights, The Dream of a Ridiculous Man, and Selections from The House of the Dead

  • #12
    Fyodor Dostoevsky
    “The degree of civilization in a society can be judged by entering its prisons.”
    Fyodor Dostoevsky

  • #13
    Albert Bandura
    “People’s beliefs about their abilities have a profound effect on those abilities.”
    Albert Bandura

  • #14
    Daniel Goleman
    “Albert Bandura, a Stanford psychologist who has done much of the research on self-efficacy, sums it up well: “People’s beliefs about their abilities have a profound effect on those abilities. Ability is not a fixed property; there is a huge variability in how you perform. People who have a sense of self-efficacy bounce back from failures; they approach things in terms of how to handle them rather than worrying about what can go wrong.”24”
    Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence

  • #15
    Paul Ekman
    “Emotions change how we see the world and how we interpret the actions of others. We do not seek to challenge why we are feeling a particular emotion; instead, we seek to confirm it.”
    Paul Ekman, Emotions Revealed: Understanding Faces and Feelings

  • #16
    Paul Ekman
    “the unhappy person is expected to conceal negative feelings, putting on a polite smile to accompany the “Just fine, thank you, and how are you?” reply to the “How are you today?” The true feelings will probably go undetected, not because the smile is such a good mask but because in polite exchanges people rarely care how the other person actually feels.”
    Paul Ekman, Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage

  • #17
    Paul Ekman
    “People also smile when they are miserable.”
    Paul Ekman, Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage

  • #18
    Paul Ekman
    “3. When the behavior changes occur in relation to a specific topic or question, that tells the lie catcher this could be a hot area to explore.”
    Paul Ekman, Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage

  • #19
    Paul Ekman
    “Believing-a-lie mistakes occur because certain people just don’t make mistakes when they lie. These are not just psychopaths but also natural liars, people who are using the Stanislavski technique, and those who by other means succeed in coming to believe their own lies. The lie catcher must remember that the absence of a sign of deceit is not evidence of truth.”
    Paul Ekman, Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage

  • #20
    Paul Ekman
    “In modern industrial societies the situation is nearly the reverse. The opportunities for lying are plentiful; privacy is easy to achieve, there are many closed doors. When caught, the social consequences need not be disastrous, for one can change jobs, change spouses, change villages. A damaged reputation need not follow you. By this reasoning we live now in circumstances that encourage rather than discourage lying; evidence and activity are more easily concealed, and the need to rely upon demeanor to make our judgments is greater. And we have not been prepared by our evolutionary history to be very sensitive to the behavioral clues relevant to lying.”
    Paul Ekman, Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage

  • #21
    Paul Ekman
    “The behavioral clues in face, body, voice, and manner of speaking are not signs of lying per se. They may be signs of emotions that don’t fit with what is being said. Or they may be signs that the suspect is thinking about what he is saying before he says it. They are flags marking areas which need to be explored.”
    Paul Ekman, Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage

  • #22
    Thomas Sowell
    “When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.”
    Thomas Sowell

  • #23
    Thomas Sowell
    “Much of the social history of the Western world over the past three decades has involved replacing what worked with what sounded good.”
    Thomas Sowell

  • #24
    Thomas Sowell
    “Socialism in general has a record of failure so blatant that only an intellectual could ignore or evade it.”
    Thomas Sowell, The Thomas Sowell Reader

  • #25
    Thomas Sowell
    “Socialism is a wonderful idea. It is only as a reality that it has been disastrous. Among people of every race, color, and creed, all around the world, socialism has led to hunger in countries that used to have surplus food to export.... Nevertheless, for many of those who deal primarily in ideas, socialism remains an attractive idea -- in fact, seductive. Its every failure is explained away as due to the inadequacies of particular leaders. ”
    Thomas Sowell

  • #26
    Thomas Sowell
    “When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment seems like discrimination.”
    Thomas Sowell

  • #27
    Thomas Sowell
    “Can you cite one speck of hard evidence of the benefits of "diversity" that we have heard gushed about for years? Evidence of its harm can be seen — written in blood — from Iraq to India, from Serbia to Sudan, from Fiji to the Philippines. It is scary how easily so many people can be brainwashed by sheer repetition of a word.”
    Thomas Sowell

  • #28
    Thomas Sowell
    “The most basic question is not what is best, but who shall decide what is best.”
    Thomas Sowell

  • #29
    Thomas Sowell
    “The fact that so many successful politicians are such shameless liars is not only a reflection on them, it is also a reflection on us. When the people want the impossible, only liars can satisfy.”
    Thomas Sowell

  • #30
    Thomas Sowell
    “No government of the left has done as much for the poor as capitalism has. Even when it comes to the redistribution of income, the left talks the talk but the free market walks the walk.
    What do the poor most need? They need to stop being poor. And how can that be done, on a mass scale, except by an economy that creates vastly more wealth? Yet the political left has long had a remarkable lack of interest in how wealth is created. As far as they are concerned, wealth exists somehow and the only interesting question is how to redistribute it.”
    Thomas Sowell, Controversial Essays



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