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  • #1
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “It is worse to stay where one does not belong at all than to wander about lost for a while and looking for the psychic and soulful kinship one requires”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #2
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “There is a time in our lives, usually in mid-life, when a woman has to make a decision - possibly the most important psychic decision of her future life - and that is, whether to be bitter or not. Women often come to this in their late thirties or early forties. They are at the point where they are full up to their ears with everything and they've "had it" and "the last straw has broken the camel's back" and they're "pissed off and pooped out." Their dreams of their twenties may be lying in a crumple. There may be broken hearts, broken marriages, broken promises.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #3
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “The psyches and souls of women also have their own cycles and seasons of doing and solitude, running and staying, being involved and being removed, questing and resting, creating and incubating, being of the world and returning to the soul-place.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #4
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Though her soul requires seeing, the culture around her requires sightlessness. Though her soul wishes to speak its truth, she is pressured to be silent.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #5
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “If you have yet to be called an incorrigable, defiant woman,
    don't worry, there is still time”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #6
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Tears are a river that takes you somewhere…Tears lift your boat off the rocks, off dry ground, carrying it downriver to someplace better.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #7
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “In mythos and fairy tales, deities and other great spirits test the hearts of humans by showing up in various forms that disguise their divinity. They show up in robes, rags, silver sashes, or with muddy feet. They show up with skin dark as old wood, or in scales made of rose petal, as a frail child, as a lime-yellow old woman, as a man who cannot speak, or as an animal who can. The great powers are testing to see if humans have yet learned to recognize the greatness of soul in all its varying forms.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #8
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Bone by bone, hair by hair, Wild Woman comes back. Through night dreams, through events half understood and half remembered...”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #9
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “All the "not readies," all the "I need time," are understandable, but only for a short while. The truth is that there is never a "completely ready," there is never a really "right time."

    As with any descent to the unconscious, there comes a time when one simply hopes for the best, pinches one's nose, and jumps into the abyss. If this were not so, we would not have needed to create the words heroine, hero, or courage.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #10
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “How does one know if she has forgiven? You tend to feel sorrow over the circumstance instead of rage, you tend to feel sorry for the person rather than angry with him. You tend to have nothing left to say about it all.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #11
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Writing, real writing, should leave a small sweet bruise somewhere on the writer . . . and on the reader.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #12
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “It makes utter sense to stay healthy and strong, to be as nourishing to the body as possible. Yet I would have to agree, there is in many women a 'hungry' one inside. But rather than hungry to be a certain size, shape, or height, rather than hungry to fit the stereotype; women are hungry for basic regard from the culture surrounding them. The 'hungry' one inside is longing to be treated respectfully, to be accepted and in the very least, to be met without stereotyping.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #13
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Practice listening to your intuition, your inner voice; ask questions; be curious; see what you see; hear what you hear; and then act upon what you know to be true. These intuitive powers were given to your soul at birth.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #14
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #15
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Dogs are the magicians of the universe.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves
    tags: dogs

  • #16
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “When a creature is exposed to violence, it will tend to adapt to that disturbance, so that when the violence ceases or the creature is allowed its freedom, the healthy instinct to flee is hugely diminished, and the creature stays put instead.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #17
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #18
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings—all in the same relationship.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #19
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Women's curiosity was given a negative connotation, whereas men were called investigative. Women were called nosy, whereas men were called inquiring. In reality, the trivialization of women's curiosity so that it seems like nothing more than irksome snooping denies women's insight, hunches, and intuitions. It denies all her senses. It attempts to attack her fundamental power.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #20
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Wild Women: "They know instinctively when things must die and when things must live; they know how to walk away, they know how to stay.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #21
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “There is no one a wildish woman loves better than a mate who can be her equal.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #22
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “To take the world into one's arms and act towards it in a soul-filled and soul-strengthening manner is a powerful act of wildish spirit.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #23
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “The only trust required is to know that when there is one ending there will be another beginning.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #24
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “All creatures must learn that there exist predators. Without this knowing, a woman will be unable to negotiate safely within her own forest without being devoured. To understand the predator is to become a mature animal who is not vulnerable out of naivete, inexperience, or foolishness.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #25
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “While archetypes may emanate through us for short periods of time, in what we call numinous experience, no woman can emanate an archetype continuously. Only the archetype itself can withstand such projections such as ever-able, all giving, eternally energetic. We may try to emulate these, but they are ideals, not achievable by humans, and not meant to be. Yet the trap requires that women exhaust themselves trying to achieve these unrealistic levels. To avoid the trap, one has to learn to say 'Halt' and 'Stop the music,' and of course mean it.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #26
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “I call her Wild Woman, for those very words, wild and woman, create llamar o tocar a la puerta, the fairy-tale knock at the door of the deep feminine psyche. Llamar o tocar a la puerta means literally to play upon the instrument of the name in order to open a door. It means using words that summon up the opening of a passageway. No matter by which culture a woman is influenced, she understands the words wild and woman, intuitively.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #27
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • #28
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “(Young girls) are taught to not see, and instead to "make pretty" all manner of grotesqueries whether they are lovely or not. This training is why the youngest sister can say, "Hmmm, his beard isn't really that blue." This early training to "be nice" causes women to override their intuitions. In that sense, they are actually purposefully taught to submit to the predator. Imagine a wolf mother teaching her young to "be nice" in the face of an angry ferret or a wily diamondback rattler.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #29
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “To love a woman, the mate must also love her wildish nature.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #30
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Sometimes a woman is afraid to be without security or without certainty, for even a short time. She has more excuses than dogs have hairs. She must just simply dive in and stand not knowing what will happen next.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves



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